Devotionals for the Heart: A simple solution for when you feel anxious

What to do when you feel anxious
A devotional by Patricia Russell

“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”

—Philippians 4:6-7 (NKJV)

“I find myself getting so anxious these days and I don’t know why!”

This was the cry from a dear mother, we’ll call her Victoria, who I had spent a few hours visiting. She was feeling overwhelmed and anxious. I assured her that everything was going to be alright. I could not lessen her fears, but I offered hope. My response came from my own personal experience because I’ve been there too. I know that distressing feeling as if you’re about to drown in a rush of drowning emotions like the rising wave of water.

“Stop,” I told Victoria. Because when our thoughts begin to spiral, our natural instinct is to rush ahead. Sometimes, the best thing we can do is stop. Pausing to take a breath. Consciously feeling our breath move through our lungs and slowly releasing it gradually changes the direction those anxious thoughts want to take us. This simple action can shift the direction of our anxious thoughts. It may sound unusually simple, but it still works.

This stress-reducing response is a practice we can use daily, not only when we are feeling overwhelmed. I have learned to have a strategy in place knowing it’s not if, but when those moments arise. When we study the life of our Savior, Jesus Christ, we see how He responded in times of crisis. Think of Him in the wilderness. His body and soul felt weary from fasting for 40 days and 40 nights. Jesus was emotionally and physically depleted, but His spirit was very much alert. The devil appeared to him at this weakest point and tried to tempt Jesus several times. But each time, Jesus responded, “It is written” and spoke what was already deep-seated within Him: Scripture. The Word of God (The Holy Bible) was Christ’s weapon to fight the torment from the devil that was meant to get Him to sin and therefore fail His mission to save the souls of humankind (John 3:16-17).

We can follow Christ’s example by having that resolve to resist the devil and respond to temptation with Scripture, but we need to prepare for these battles through reading God’s Word, praying to Him and meditating on His Word. Are we consciously preparing for those moments of temptation, anxiety and frustration?

Let’s look at another example found in the Bible story about King David. As a youth, David was anointed to be the next king. He boldly chose to face a literal giant, Goliath, and struck him down using a slingshot and a stone. He did this to make God’s name great but was not ready for what would follow. The people praised him by saying, “Saul has slain his thousands, and David his tens of thousands” (1 Samuel 18:7 NIV). They heralded the great success David had over their current King Saul. This drove Saul into jealousy, and he wanted to kill David.

The Bible tells us of a time when David was playing a lyre in the presence of King Saul who then tried to hurl his spear at David, hoping to pin him to the wall (1 Samuel 18:10-11). But David escaped him. Can you imagine the confusion, fear and anxiety that began to sweep over David? He had to run for his life. He went from being a hero into hiding because Saul continued to try to kill David.

We have many passages of Scripture to show us David’s emotional health during this time. Psalm 55:1-3 (NIV) says, “Listen to my prayer, O God, do not ignore my plea; hear me and answer me. My thoughts trouble me, and I am distraught because of what my enemy is saying, because of the threats of the wicked; for they bring down suffering on me and assail me in their anger.”

David cried out to God because he needed answers. His thoughts were going wild. God is not afraid of our honest cries for help. He heard David’s cry then and He hears our cries now. Like David, we need to stand on God’s faithfulness.

Feelings of anxiety and overwhelm may come in waves. Consider tracking them. Notice when they hit. Is it in the morning activity, in the evening or while doing certain activities? When the waves roll in, open The Holy Bible and search for scriptures that talk about fear, anxiety, and burdens. The Psalms are great place to start because it reminds us that David cried out to God for help and God answered.

The Book of Psalms shows us that David always remembered the times when God had brought relief and strengthened him. It is those times of reflection that helped David to press on. The same is true for us today. When our thoughts start to spiral downward into depression and despair, we need to stop, speak to the Lord and stand on the truths we know about Him.

Remember how you experienced God’s help in the past. He is the same yesterday, today and forever (Hebrews 13:8). God remains faithful. He will be faithful to walk with us in the happy moments as well as the dark days that will inevitably come our way but will come to pass. Be encouraged!

Let’s Pray:
Heavenly Father, I’m so thankful that You are aware of the anxiety that we face at times. Those are hard days and I need You to remind me that your strength is made perfect in my weakness. I need to know You are near. Remind me of the truth found in Your Word. Help me to hold onto these truths as I walk through tough times. Remind me that You are with me through it all. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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Song of Reflection #1: “Trust in God” by Elevation Worship (feat. Chris Brown & Isaiah Templeton). Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #2: “Draw Me Nearer Medley: I Am Thine, O Lord / Draw Me Close” by Patricia Russell. Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #3: “Press On” by Selah. Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #4: “He’s Been Faithful” by Brooklyn Tabernacle Choir and TaRanda Greene. Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #5: “He is with You” by Mandisa. Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #6: “Through it All” by Andrae Crouch. Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #7: “Draw Me Nearer” by Meredith Andrews. Listen to it here.

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Author Bio:

Patricia is a worship leader, songwriter, speaker and compiler of her 2020 best-seller anthology "Stronger Resilience: Stories to Empower the Mind, Body and Spirit", as well as Lord I Trust You: Words of Encouragement to encourage readers and share life lessons during her cancer journey. 

Patricia writes, speaks, and teaches on the power of God’s Word to heal and empower you to become all that you are purposed for. She has traveled internationally and shared her gifts with audiences to encourage, empower and share life lessons through word and song. Patricia has sung on national television broadcasts and shared the stage with several respected speakers including Anne Graham Lotz and Rev. E.V. Hill.

Her greatest joy is being married to her husband, Wayne, for 34 years. Together they serve the community through their local congregation as well as providing premarital and marriage coaching. They have two adult children, Raquel and Benjamin. As a two-time breast cancer overcomer, Patricia coaches’ others to develop resilience and live life to their fullest.

Patricia has released two gospel music recordings: “Draw Me Nearer” and “Lord, I Trust You”. In March 2022, she launched her podcast “Becoming Resilient” which can be downloaded wherever you get your podcasts and also seen on YouTube.

When not reading or studying, Patricia loves to eat Thai food and spend time with “Lucy” – her daughter’s Yorkie-poo who has taken up room in her heart.

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