Showing posts with label accident. Show all posts
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Friday, September 11, 2020

Devotionals for the Heart: Headgear


Don’t Go Out Without Your Headgear

A devotional by Chaplain Paul Anderson

“But let us who are of the day be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love, and as a helmet the hope of salvation.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:8 (NKJV)

A few months ago, I went over to my son’s house to watch his girls ride their bicycles. They had become confident enough to ride without training wheels and they wanted me to see them. He told me to bring my bicycle, so I did.

When I arrived, I saw the girls suited up with their helmets, gloves, elbow pads, and knee pads. They confidently rode around in circles near their driveway. I pulled my bike down and rode in circles with them. Eventually, they tired and wanted to go inside. At that point, my son said, “Okay Dad, let’s go!” and off he went on his bicycle. I mounted mine and followed him. 

We rode through his neighborhood. He was enjoying the ride. He was riding with the carefree abandon that I remembered when he was much younger. I could not keep up. He turned down a walking path that weaved through some forestry behind some of the homes. Suddenly, we are going down a steep hill. At the bottom of the hill was a puddle. He blazed right through it on his mountain bike. I was on a road bike with very narrow tires. I hit the puddle and the bike slid one way then the other. I was ejected at 17 miles per hour.

As I soared through the air, I became keenly aware that I had not put on any protective pads, gloves or my helmet. I hit the ground and tumbled, head over heels. On the second tumble, my head contacted the asphalt. Thankfully, the ground was wet. The momentum caused me to slide rather than slam into the concrete. When I stopped tumbling and spinning, I laid upon the ground, trying to assess the damage. Thankfully, the only damage was road rash on my head and knee, a throbbing wrist, a broken mirror on the bicycle, and my wounded ego.

There were people around and I was embarrassed. Someone said, “That is why you should be wearing a helmet.” By the time my son turned around and arrived, I was on my feet and very mindful of the miracle that I had just experienced.

As we slowly rode the last mile back to his house, I thought of two verses of Scripture.

1 Thessalonians 5:8 (NKJV) felt appropriate: “But let us who are of the day be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love, and as a helmet the hope of salvation.” The second verse was Psalm 8:5 (NKJV): “For You have made him a little lower than the angels, And You have crowned him with glory and honor.”

Bicyclists wear helmets. Soldiers wear helmets. Construction workers wear helmets. They all wear these to protect their heads from potential injury. Brain injuries are serious. They can be followed by a lifetime of negative repercussions. The same is true of soul/moral injuries.

They both occur in the head.

Just as a helmet protects the head and the brain, the hope of salvation protects the crown of glory and honor that God placed within us at creation and conception. It is because of the glory and honor that we have dominion in our spheres of activity and influence. If the glory and honor are injured because they were not protected, or enfeebled due to lack of nurture, our dominion is diminished. The dulled glow is apparent to all.

It turned out that my wrist was broken. The wound on my head began to heal and eventually scabbed over. Some people would ask me what happened. Most could see that I was not wearing a helmet when I fell.

May I encourage you not to go out on today’s expeditions, without your spiritual helmet?

Before you plunge into your day, focus intentionally on something noble. Read something that is true. Visualize justice! Load your emotional quiver with integrity, grace, and the determination to do the right and best things, all day. Say a prayer in Jesus Christ’s Name, then saunter off into the day to either be a blessing to someone or to embrace the blessings yet to unfold before you.

When you live in this way, your crown of glory and honor will shine and not be diminished.

Don’t go out without your headgear.

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Author Bio:

Chaplain Anderson served for 20 years as a U.S. Navy Chaplain. Over 26 years of active duty, he was promoted through the ranks from Seaman Apprentice (E2) to his final rank as Commander (O5) in the Chaplain’s Corps.


Prior to his Naval career, Chaplain Anderson pastored in the Allegheny East and Potomac Conferences of Seventh-day Adventists. His undergraduate preparation for ministry was completed at Washington Adventist University in Takoma Park, Md.

He has subsequently earned four graduate degrees: a Master of Divinity from Andrews University in Michigan, a Master of Education in Counseling and Personnel Services from the University of Maryland in College Park, Maryland and a Masters of Sacred Theology in Religion and Culture from Boston University. His Doctor of Ministry degree was conferred by Wesley Theological Seminary in Washington, D.C.

Chaplain Anderson also completed four units of Clinical Pastoral Education at Walter Reed Army Medical Center. He also holds certifications in Suicide Awareness and Prevention, Civil Mediation, Alternative Workplace Dispute Resolution, Temperament Analysis, Marriage Enrichment, Workforce Diversity, and is a certified Life Coach.

Sunday, April 8, 2018

Let Love Bloom: Loving Grace


Interview with Grace, character in April Smith’s book “Loving Grace”:

Alexis: Hi, Grace! Thanks for agreeing to an interview. This story opens with a conflict and you have to make a quick decision about a certain title. Why didn’t you want to be the Watermelon Queen?


Grace: It’s not so much that I didn’t want to be the watermelon queen, but that everything happened so quickly. I didn’t have much time to process everything, and I still had a lot going on in my head about the accident.

Alexis: What is the Watermelon Queen tradition all about and what is the queen required to do? 

Grace: As far as traditions go, it’s something the association created to have a spokesperson for them. There’s been a watermelon queen for as long as I can remember. Her main job is to promote the watermelon industry—but I’m telling you guys, it’s so much fun… seeing new places, trying new foods, meeting interesting people…

Alexis: Who is Beau Baron and what role does he play in your life story? Describe his looks, personality and your history with him.

Grace: Our history…so much to say, so little time. Let’s put it like this: we grew up together. He’s been around for as long as I can remember. He and my twin, Luke were best friends—inseparable actually.

Alexis: Now on to his personality. It depends on the day really…let’s just say we’re like oil and vinegar—we usually don’t mix well together.

Grace: Okay, I’m going to tell it to you straight, but if I find out you told Beau, I’ll deny ever saying a word of it. I mean it…I’ll deny it with my last breath…He’s tall, like over six feet tall, and when he’s not being annoying, which let me tell you isn’t often, his smile is like, wow!

And—uggh…I can’t believe I’m going to say it—he is good looking. Dark brown hair and chocolate brown eyes. Need I say more?


Alexis: Why does Beau make your blood boil but also occupy your mind?

Grace: Probably because he knows which buttons to push to drive me crazy. 

Alexis: Who is Warren Hartley? Why do you think he’s so dreamy? How does his presence affect your story?

Grace: He’s every girl’s dream. He’s the knight in shining armor type. What girl doesn’t want to feel like and be treated like a princess? He just always seems to know what to say and do. 

Alexis: What can you tell us about the accident that “rocked your world”? How did it change you? Do you think that change was for the better or worse? Why?

Grace: It didn’t change me, it shattered me. I lost what was most important to me that day. To say it was for the better or worse…I don’t know. I know I’m stronger now and working to understand it, but healing takes time, and the only way I’ve been able to make sense of it, is to give it all to God; so, placing it at his feet, has allowed me to move forward. Some days are easier than others, but I’m getting there.

Alexis: When did you first see sparks fly between you and Beau? What did you do about it?

Grace: We were five, and he came over for a playdate at our house. Beau and Luke didn’t want to include me in their game. Up until then, I’d never really had to share Luke with anyone, and they had never tried to leave me out before…let’s just say it was the first time, I realized that I didn’t do well with sharing my brother’s attention. I kicked Beau in the shin. I got a timeout. He got a bruise and to play with my brother while I had to sit in my room. So unfair (insert frustrated sigh here). Okay, I know I was in the wrong, but still, that’s the first time the sparks flew…

Alexis: What is it about Beau that warms your heart? Why is he special to you?

Grace: In some ways, he’s still a connection to my brother. They were always together, and after our first initial battle (you know the one where I kicked him in the shin) we eventually all three became a close trio. It was only after the accident, that things for Beau and I fell apart.

Alexis: What would you say was the turning point in your relationship with Beau?

Grace: I don’t know that we’ve had a turning point. Beau and I have been through a lot. Some of it has been good, some…not so good…but that’s life. It can be complicated. I think it’s a gradual process with me and probably for him too.

Alexis: How does your faith in God impact the way you live and make decisions?

Grace: I’m a firm believer that we’re here for a purpose, and I want to glorify God, by being what He calls me to be. I want all that I say and do to be pleasing to Him.

Alexis: What did you like—and not like—about being the Watermelon Queen?

Grace: I missed Gramps from time to time. Also, living out of a suitcase means a lot of laundry. Those are minor things compared to all of the travel and fun experiences that being the watermelon queen brought into my life. And honestly, it was at a time when I needed some fun and to be forced out of the rut I had landed in.

Alexis: What do you want readers to remember most about your story? 

Grace: Life can be messy, but we can trust God in the process.

Alexis: What advice do you have for the next Watermelon Queen?

Grace: Be yourself. Have fun and enjoy your year! It goes faster than you’d ever believe. 

Alexis: Thanks for the interview, Grace! Do you have any closing thoughts?

Grace: Just, thank you! And I really enjoyed our chat.

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Author Bio:

April Smith grew up spending summers working on her best friend’s family watermelon farm and she was one of those watermelon queens she writes about. She has her undergraduate degree in Elementary Education and a Master’s Degree in the Art of Teaching.

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Blurb for April's book Loving Grace: 

Grace Summer lands herself in a melon load of trouble when she becomes torn between the boy of her dreams and the boy almost next door. As the newly-crowned Watermelon Queen, she is thrust into the spotlight, meets the dreamy Warren Hartley, and continues trying to get over an accident that rocked her world. Mix in working with Beau Baron who Grace happens to fight with just about as much as breathing and the metaphorical sparks fly. 



Like most things in life, Grace must learn to take the good with the bad. While the good is the handsome and fun Warren Hartley, the bad is Beau Baron—or at least being around his annoying and rude self way more than she would like. For Beau, Grace is nothing more than aggravating and an irritating reminder from the night of the accident. Tensions soar as Grace and Beau fight to love themselves and maybe, just maybe, each other.

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Connect with April:
Website - www.aprilsmithbooks.com
Facebook - www.facebook.com/aprilsmithbooks
Twitter - https://twitter.com/aprilsmithbook

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