Wednesday, June 10, 2020

Devotionals for the Heart: When Jesus Christ is moved by our tears


Moved By Tears

A devotional by Sharon Musgrove

“Then Jesus, deeply moved again, came to the tomb. 
It was a cave, and a stone lay against it.”
–John 11:38 (ESV)

The story of the death and resurrection of Lazarus, as told in the book of John, chapter 11, has held me captivated. There are several stories being told within this account, each worth its own attention, yet what is highlighted for me are the movements of Jesus.

We read, early in John 11:5 that Jesus loved siblings Martha, Mary and Lazarus. This family had a strong relationship with God’s son. It is no surprise, that when Lazarus becomes deathly ill, the sisters sent word to Jesus, certain he would heal their brother.

Being wholly God, Jesus knows the outcome of this situation, saying such to his disciples, “This illness does not lead to death. It is for the glory of God, so that the Son of God may be glorified through it.” (John 11:4 ESV) His foreknowledge in God’s plan was his confidence and there was no urgency in moving quickly.

Mary and Martha had an expectation of the Lord that did not align with God’s omnipotence. Their belief was revealed in their words found later in the chapter.

“Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” These words were spoken by Martha in John 11:21 and Mary in John 11:32.

Isn’t that how we often feel when our life circumstances are out of our control and our vision of what God can do is small? We cannot see the future, but we can believe that we have one. Mary and Martha saw death as the end of the story, but Jesus knew more. The same is true for us today.

Jesus did show up, and in plenty of time.

His arrival came during the weeping. The text does not state that Martha wept. It does say she went to him (John 11:20) while Mary remained at home. Was Martha angry? Charging ahead with accusations? Or was it Mary who was sick of heart, not wanting to look at the one who had disappointed her?

Jesus reaches out to both. Whether we run to him in distress or postpone addressing him, our Savior comes.

“The Teacher is here and is calling you.” (John 11:28)

Mary was surrounded by consolers, according to the text (John 11:31). This Mary, who had sat intently listening at the Teacher’s feet (Luke 10:39), now heard a chorus of pity. Is it no wonder she wept when the voices closest echoed, “Could not he...”

Jesus was deeply moved. The Greek word for this feeling is “embrimaomai.” Right then his spirit became indignant (John 11:33). Jesus was accustomed to hearing doubt and accusations. Had not he just engaged Martha on the same concern? Yet here, this encounter moved him to immediate action. Death had not changed his pace, so what did?

Threat to one of the Shepherd’s sheep motivates action. It moved him to tears. “Then Jesus, deeply moved again, came to the tomb. It was a cave, and a stone lay against it.” (John 11:38)

When his people cry, Jesus takes action! He protects God’s precious children from Satan’s lies. This death and resurrection precedes his own by only a handful of days. Days! I can’t help but think it quickened his pulse to know his fate looked like this, only he’d be the one stinking up the grave. If he was on the inside of the tomb, who would be on the outside moving for him?

The will of the Father.

John recounts, in chapter 6, the earlier words of Jesus, “All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never cast out. For I have come down from heaven, not to do my own will but the will of him who sent me. And this is the will of him who sent me, that I should lose nothing of all that he has given me, but raise it up on the last day.” (John 6:37-39 ESV)

A prayer, a cry and the man who died came out.

Friends, God hears our cries. He will always be right on time. God moves when we are threatened. And His will is that we, with Christ, are resurrected.

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Author Bio:
Sharon Musgrove is a self-proclaimed sociologist. The opportunities opened to her, over the years, have led her on a fascinating journey observing human behavior. 

She has a diverse background in business, fitness and health industries. This background led her to a unique position writing curriculum and teaching for two private, Christ-based, residential recovery programs. Both recovery programs served women primarily from the homeless community.

Sharon has traveled multiple times to Kenya, serving on medical teams and teaching in the rural Maasai communities. She's been privileged to participate in Leadership camps for maturing young women. These annual camps have a mission of encouraging and empowering the impoverished, underprivileged, and often abused young Maasai girls.

Easily identifying personally with the brokenness of the women she's served, Sharon now sees all people as needing more encouragement regardless of cultural or socioeconomic status. Within these ministries, Sharon has witnessed the transformative power of loving words spoken to the broken-hearted. Sharing God’s love and witnessing its transformative power has become her passion.

In her leisure time, Sharon enjoys her garden, health food, travel and a good story. She and her husband, Jeff, make their home in Oregon’s Willamette Valley. They have two grown children. Currently, Sharon is writing her first Christian historical fiction novel utilizing her study, experience, and understanding of self-destructive behaviors.

Tuesday, June 9, 2020

Romantic Reads: Sea Glass Castle


Join me in welcoming one of my new favorite authors, T.I. Lowe, to the blog! 

Her book covers are gorgeous! Confession: I have not actually read her stories yet but I'm convinced by the book cover and blurbs that her stories are amazing! 

She's here today to share the story behind her story Sea Glass Castle.

 Enjoy your time with T.I. today!

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Sea Glass Castle: The Story Behind the Story
A guest post by T.I. Lowe

There is double meaning in the title that gives the reader a clue about the story behind it, and both meanings were the inspiration for this book. As you can imagine a castle made out of glass is considered extremely fragile, and if not enough care is taken it will shatter. 


Life is much the same. The beauty of sea glass is that it’s actually formed from broken pieces that have gone through a turbulent journey in the ocean. It’s perfectly symbolic for my heroine Sophia Prescott’s story. Readers will witness her broken life go through a turbulent journey until forming a beautiful story she never envisioned.

I’m human and stumble a lot more than I let on. The stumble I drew inspiration from for this story is having the mindset of trying to be everything to everyone. It’s not even feasible and I’ve gotten lost a couple of times while trying to do so. I took that struggle and made it Sophia’s. She tries to maintain the façade of having a perfect marriage, home life, and career. Of course, fissures of truth get past her weakening exterior and causes life as she knew it to shatter. She then has to brave rebuilding a new life, being mindful to not make the same mistakes again. 

Our lives may not shatter so drastically as Sophia’s or may even be more severe, but the similar truth here is that it is ultimately up to us to overcome it.

The Bible verse for this book holds a lot of the truths I wanted to share with people. “We are pressed on every side by troubles, but we are not crushed. We are perplexed, but not driven to despair. We are hunted down, but never abandoned by God. We get knocked down, but we are not destroyed.” (2 Corinthians 4:8-9 NLT)

Sophia has to face some pretty devastating trials, but rises above it for the sake of her child. Her determination to do whatever it took to support her son, which meant humbling herself and accepting a new career path, is absolute inspiration. 

She shows Collin, and readers, that you can overcome obstacles through perseverance and standing firm in your faith. God can and will create beauty from our brokenness if we put our trust in him.

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Author Bio:

Bestselling author T.I. Lowe sees herself as an ordinary country girl who loves to tell extraordinary stories. She knows she’s just getting started and has many more stories to tell.



A wife and mother and active in her church community, she resides in coastal South Carolina with her family.

For a complete list of Lowe’s published books, biography, upcoming events, and other information, visit tilowe.com and be sure to check out her blog, while you’re there!

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Blurb for The Sea Glass Castle:


From the bestselling author of Lulu’s Café ...

Sophia Prescott is still mending from the embarrassment of a highly publicized divorce from a pro football player, and the now-single mother is back in Sunset Cove, surrounded by the supporting love of her family and the Sand Queens. 

Sophia doesn’t think there’s any hope for starting over until an unexpected trip to the pediatrician’s office gives her a second chance after all.

Dr. Weston Sawyer knows all about lives shattering into millions of pieces. His own all but ended when a truck driver fell asleep at the wheel and barreled head-on into his pregnant wife’s sedan, killing her instantly and leaving Wes with a soul so wounded that it has refused to heal. 

He packed up and left swampy southern Alabama for South Carolina with the hope of fading into the sleepy coastal town of Sunset Cove. Instead, feisty brunette Sophia Prescott will have him braving something different and entirely unexpected. 

If Sophia and Wes can take the leap to give love another try, they just might find that hope has a way of coming back around and weaving into one’s heart.

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Monday, June 8, 2020

Devotionals for the Heart: How to bloom wherever God plants you


Bloom
A devotional by Wade Webster

The women said to Naomi: “Praise be to the Lord, who this day has not left you without a kinsman-redeemer. May he become famous throughout Israel.” 
–Ruth 4:14 (NIV)

In April I told you about my desire to help people cope with their isolation during this COVID-19 pandemic by posting pictures of wildflowers on Facebook. It began in late March when I drove to south Texas. I thought I would finish this task at the end of April. Many of my friends voiced disappointment when I posted that I would be ending this series. Then I found new flowers blooming. This kept me going into mid-May.

My job as a truck driver was deemed essential by the government so I was able to get out and about to take these pictures. About the time I thought I would run out of new flowers to post, I would be sent to a new area that had fresh flowers or new flowers would sprout up in some of the spots I had been to previously. I was disappointed many times when there was no safe place for me to pull over to take pictures of all of the flowers I was seeing.

When I did pull over to take a picture of what I could see from my driver's seat I was always surprised. Many smaller flowers awaited me. Flowers that I couldn't see while scanning the bigger landscape. Oftentimes these were more beautiful than the first blooms I desired.

One day I had to wait for my load to be produced so I paced behind the factory. It's a large area closed in by high walls. The loaded trailers are staged here until us drivers are ready to leave. As I walked about I saw an interesting occurrence. The concrete surface I was on had cracks designed throughout to allow for expansion and contraction of the cement during temperature extremes. Out of these cracks grew what most folks would call worthless weeds. What I saw was a new variety of flowers yearning for their time in the spotlight.

I titled that day's pictorial “Bloom Wherever You're Planted.” Many people were inspired by those tiny flowers growing out of seemingly impossible terrain. God blew their seeds there to show that He can use anything anywhere He chooses to.

It makes me think of the book of Ruth and how God helped her “bloom.” She married into a Hebrew family that was vastly different than her Moab lifestyle. There was something about these foreigners that drew her into them. So much so that she swore allegiance to Naomi's God as they moved to her mother-in-law's homeland.

Waiting for them was a man named Boaz, whose mother was born in Jericho according to Matthew 1:5. Boaz apparently never married but was farming the land near Naomi's former home. In a way only God could orchestrate, these two misfits come together while harvesting grain. They use the rights of the kinsman-redeemer to form a legal bond and create a son. In this son's family line would come the greatest king the nation of Israel would ever know, apart from The King, Jesus Christ.

Rahab's son and Naomi's daughter-in-law made the grandfather of King David. Only God could bring such a story together.

I don't know what terrain you find yourself planted in today. I also can't see what chapter of your life is being written at this moment. But I can assure you it is in God's will. He has a plan for every aspect of what's happening. God can make beauty bloom out of the hard places and tough terrains of life.

Bloom wherever you are planted today. Trust Him to bring it all together in His time.

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Author Bio:

Wade Webster is a farm boy turned city slicker, heathen turned born-again Christian, truck driver turned writer doing his best to point folks to his best friend, Jesus Christ. 

He currently lives in Plano, Texas.

Wade is the author of 100 Prayers of a Writer, a book that didn't begin as a book, just weekly prayers to a group of writer friends.

He enjoys spending time in nature, running for exercise and dark chocolate, though not necessarily in that order. Apart from driving 18-wheelers for a living he has a part-time job painting houses on the side...and the front and back and inside.

As a teenager, he told his friends he never wanted to be considered normal. So far he's done a pretty good job of living up to that aspiration.

Friday, June 5, 2020

Devotionals for the Heart: The Woman at the Well and the Savior of the world


At the Well
A devotional by Mirachelle Canada

Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I will not be thirsty or have to come here to draw water.” 
–John 4:13-15 (ESV)

She was struggling, and He knew it all. Every detail that could be used against her. She saw no way out and had resigned to stay in sin. She was an outcast and went to the well in the heat of the day to avoid the ridicule and judgement she probably felt internally every minute of the day.

How often do we too choose to stay in difficult situations because of sin and feelings of shame?

Jesus Christ waited at Jacob’s Well for the sin-struggling Samaritan woman. She was the first to whom He verbally revealed Himself as The Messiah. The significance of His act is that it placed them both in a precarious position. Jesus was a Jewish man talking to a Samaritan woman. He had crossed a cultural boundary, “for Jews did not associate with Samaritans” (John 4:9), as well as a social one, for He as a man conversing with an adulteress woman at a public place. It could be classified as a meeting contrary to everyone’s expectations of the “savior of the world” (John 4:42).

Jesus took a risk to change the woman’s life because as the Messiah, He was and is the bringer and sustainer of life. The woman was intrigued when she thought she could receive a ‘living water’, never to grow thirsty again or have the need to keep coming to the well; to keep from facing her sin (John 4:15). But what Jesus was offering her was not the chance to run from her problems, but to change them by His spirit and truth.

Why then don’t we immediately bring our burdens and surrender them to the one who knows all? Jesus was not repelled or offended by the woman’s sin. He offered her the chance at a new life despite it. It was her chance to be saved and to be changed by the living water of eternal life (John 4:13). He afforded the same offering to all that believe on Him as the woman did (John 4:42).

I’ll be the first to admit that I don’t always come to God first but have relied on my own experience to work around some of my problems. Truthfully, I have never found my own way through them either. The solution has always been to surrender them to Jesus, the one who’s always waiting with unconditional love. I know that He sees me beyond the situation I am in. Each time, instead of asking me to draw the water from the well where He’s been waiting for me, I am given the living water straight from His loving hands.

Will you bring your current burden to Jesus at the well with me today? Let us come and seek our savior at the well-spring of life. He knows what we need and what we should do. In turn, He’s waiting to reveal more of Himself, His truth, and His love as only the Savior of the world can.

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Author Bio:
Mirachelle Canada is a writer, playwright, screenwriter, and theatre director/producer from Northern Virginia, where she teaches television production at her high school alma mater.

She earned her Master of Fine Arts in Script & Screenwriting from Regent University and is an alumnus of Act One: Hollywood Film & Television Writing Program.

Mirachelle is a member of American Christian Fiction Writers, American Fiction Writers Virginia Chapter, The Jerry Jenkins Writers Guild, and Your Novel Blueprint.

She is currently working on her first historical fiction novel set during WWII.

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Connect with Mirachelle:
Website: www.mirachellecanada.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mirachellecanada/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/miracan

Wednesday, June 3, 2020

Devotionals for the Heart: Forgiveness


The Grace of Forgiveness
A devotional by Allison M. Wilson


Key Scripture: 
John 3:16, Romans 6:10, Romans 7:14-25, Psalm 103:12, 1 John 1:9,
 Ephesians 5:26-27, Zephaniah 3:17 (NASB)

“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.” John 3:16 is one of the first verses I remember memorizing as a child. It’s taken most of my life to truly grasp a part of what that verse says, though.

God so loved the WORLD. Who does that encompass? Everyone, it seems. However, not everyone will embrace the sacrifice of Christ and accept that forgiveness. The forgiveness is offered, though, to everyone. Those who receive it will be saved.

Those of us who have believed in Christ as our Savior are forgiven for all of our sins. (Romans 6:10) Not just a few. Not just the “big ones,” as some might want to imagine. A “little white lie” on my part put Christ on the cross just as much as someone who murdered countless people. Yes, I’m forgiven of all my sins.

The problem comes when we, as believers, don’t let that forgiveness permeate our being. We continue to beat ourselves up for things we do wrong. We think we should be perfected in our behavior, though there’s nowhere in the Scriptures which says that will happen on this side of heaven’s gates. In fact, one of the most prominent writers of the New Testament tells us that he does the things he hates, and doesn’t do what he knows is right (Romans 7:14-25). If the apostle Paul couldn’t get it right, after being personally taught by Christ, why do we demand perfection from ourselves?

Our focus on the sin takes our focus off of our Savior. It may even be easier to give forgiveness to others who hurt us than it is for us to forgive ourselves when we mess up. We forget that we couldn’t save ourselves, and think we can change ourselves. As if it’s up to us to get it right.

Grace came for forgiveness. I don’t like to use the phrase “covered my sins.” My sins aren’t covered so much as they are washed away. They are no more. They are as far as the east is from the west. (Psalm 103:12) I’m now a co-heir with Christ. All that God has promised to His Heir is mine, too! God wouldn’t be giving those riches to someone who wasn’t cleansed from all unrighteouness.

1 John 1:9 we are told that confessing our sins brings cleansing. That word “confess” means “to agree with” in the original language. We agree with God that what we did/said/thought was disobedient to His calling on our lives. His forgiveness was already given at the cross. Our agreement is just for our sake, not His. He already knows what we did wasn’t our best. He sees the perfected product that the sacrifice of His Son bought. The journey to that perfected product is where sanctification happens. In God’s eyes, you are already without spot, stain, or blemish. (Ephesians 5:26-27) We shouldn’t agree with the enemy that we are any different.

Walk in His truth of who you are and whose you are.

Let’s Pray:
Father God, we allow ourselves to be swayed by our feelings and thoughts so often, rather than having our feet firmly grounded on Your Word of truth. Speak that truth to our hearts when the lies come to tell us that we’re not worthy, or not good enough, or that we’ve done something wrong to make You mad at us. Before Christ went to the cross to cleanse us, You wrote the words in Zephaniah 3:17 saying that You rejoice over me “with shouts of joy.” Let that sink into my heart to remind me that You are not disappointed in me. Your love has already gone beyond all my mess-ups and counted me a joy to You. In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray, Amen.

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Author Bio:

A very early reader and lover of the written word, Allison M. Wilson has been writing since the age of 8 with the heart to impart stories and God's truth.



She has judged countless contests for the last 25 years, reviewed for several online publications, professionally edited, and written articles and devotionals.

Wife, mother, writer, editor, teacher, mentor, and mompreneur, God keeps her busy while living in east central Florida with her family.

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Connect with Allison:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allisonmwilson
Twitter: https://twitter.com/amwilson

Tuesday, June 2, 2020

Romantic Reads: This Wandering Heart (book) by Janine Rosche


Welcome Janine Rosche to the blog today!

She's here to talk about her debut novel, This Wandering Heart.

Janine is offering a signed, paperback copy of her book to the winner of the giveaway contest hosted via the Rafflecopter widget at the end of this blog post! 

Since mailing books internationally is expensive, you must be a resident of the United States of America to enter the contest. Enjoy your time with Janine!

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Interview with Janine Rosche about her debut book,
This Wandering Heart (Madison River Romance Book 1):

Alexis: What inspired you to write This Wandering Heart as your debut book?

Janine: When I graduated from high school, I flipped through my father's road atlas. From my house, I was able to drag my finger along a path from my home to anywhere in the continental United States. Something about that realization unearthed a longing to set out on my own and discover everything from east to west. Now that I'm settled—married with children—I still struggle with that desire to wander wild.

Alexis: How did you create your main characters for this story?

Janine: Keira isn’t too dissimilar to me in one specific way, so she was relatively easy to create. I feel the same push-and-pull that Keira feels, although her wounds cut much deeper. As for Robbie, I knew I'd need to create a fantastic hero to walk beside her as she discovers herself.

Alexis: Tell us about your story’s heroine, Keira. What are her likes, dislikes, hopes and dreams?

Janine: During her abusive and controlling childhood, Keira read novels and watched travel television shows to mentally escape. Now, as an adult, she wants to photograph that world and share it with others who can’t travel. She also loves the freedom of traveling on her own, but she can’t seem to forget the guy she once left behind.

Alexis: Tell us about your story’s hero, Robbie. Describe his looks, personality and character.

Janine: Robbie is a kindhearted former football star with a great sense of humor that he uses to hide his insecurity thanks to a learning disability. Above all, he has a lot of integrity, but also a serious lack of impulse control that has gotten him in trouble in the past. Oh, and he’s real strong with auburn curls that peek out from under his baseball cap.

Alexis: What makes Robbie swoonworthy and conflicted about his feelings for Keira?


Janine: Robbie is loyal, especially to the women in his life: his mama, his sister, and his four-year-old daughter. So naturally, he feels a driving desire to help and protect Keira despite the fact that she hurt him in the past.

Alexis: What is it about Robbie that keeps Keira coming back to him?

Janine: He’s perfect? Is that an answer? I mean, he loves her so well and would give up almost anything to make her dreams come true. He once saved her from her father and encouraged her to imagine dreams in the first place. He’s the one man she’s ever known who didn’t want to keep her in a cage.

Alexis: Both Keira and Robbie have developed online personas centered on travel. Why?

Janine: Keira is a high school geography teacher so to keep some anonymity she started travel-blogging/social-media-influencing with an alias, Kat Wanderfull. Robbie stumbled onto social media, and wouldn’t still be on there if he’d never crossed paths with Kat Wanderfull who gives him hope that maybe there’s a right girl out there for him.

Alexis: What role do Keira and Robbie’s online personas play in their personal story offline?

Janine: Robbie’s pretty straightforward. He’s been the same guy since he was seventeen and first fell for Keira. He only hides his identity to make “Kat” feel comfortable chatting with him. But Keira has lived her whole life not knowing who she is. Her multiple names symbolize the people she has been and wants to be. That’s a big part of her journey—figuring out her true identity.

Alexis: Why did you set this story in Montana? What about that great state do you love?

Janine: My father introduced me to Montana. I used to love going out there and watching him and my brothers fish the Madison River. After he passed away, I wanted to find a way to memorialize him and give him the retirement he never got. Enter Chuck Matthews, Robbie’s father, who owns a fly-fishing resort on the Madison.

Alexis: Your debut book is the first installment in your Madison River Romance series. What can you tell us about the next books in your series? Will they all take place in Montana?

Janine:
While this is an on-the-road romance, Robbie and Keira’s home base is Montana. The next two books take place almost entirely in the Madison River Canyon. The next book is about Robbie’s wild-haired, strong-willed sister, Ryann. She’s my hero!

Alexis:
Who is Anabelle and what role does her mother play in creating conflict for this story?

Janine: Anabelle is the result of one of Robbie’s impulsive moments, but from the minute he knows about her existence, he acts as her protector. He cares for her the way a father should care for his daughter and gives up everything for her, especially when Anabelle’s mother abandons her. But now, she’s back and demanding custody. Robbie can’t let her take his girl away.

Alexis: Why do Keira and Robbie struggle with trust issues?

Janine: They’ve each hurt each in the past. Sometimes the best intentions aren’t enough.

Alexis:
What brings Keira and Robbie together?

Janine:
Keira has a big opportunity to land a travel television show if only she can convince the producers that her followers will fall in love with the person behind Kat Wanderfull. For that, she needs an assistant—and Robbie is the only one who can help her do that.

Alexis: What – or who – threatens to tear Keira and Robbie apart forever?

Janine:
Robbie would give up anything for Keira, except his little girl. If this custody battle goes south, he may have to choose between them. Keira struggles with intimacy. Having Robbie close to her side is amazing—she knows from experience. But for her, losing him is devastating—she knows that as well. She can’t risk that pain again.

Alexis: As a Christian author, what role does your faith play in sustaining the fictional lives of your characters in This Wandering Heart story?

Janine:
Keira’s desire to “wander” is pretty symbolic of our relationship to God. Fear and a need to be independent combine to keep up from trusting God with our lives. I know I feel that in my own faith. The lyrics from “Come Thou Fount Of Every Blessing” describe this perfectly: “Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it. Prone to leave the God I love. Here’s my heart, Lord, take and seal it. Seal it for thy courts above.” Bind my wandering heart to thee is my constant prayer.

Alexis:
What do you want your readers to remember the most about your debut book?

Janine:
One reviewer thought Robbie was too forgiving of Keira’s unwillingness to trust him. And I agree! It defies what most of us have experienced in life. But I hope they see the patience he has with her. He doesn’t force her, doesn’t pressure her, and certainly doesn’t cage her, not unlike how God pursues us. I hope readers rest easy afterward knowing that they are gloriously loved, the same way Robbie loves Keira.

Alexis:
Now for the quick and fun questions in italics with your answers in plain font …

Coffee or tea? Sweet Tea! I lived in the south for eight years and I miss it!

Summer or Spring? Summer, because I get to travel!

Kindle or paperback books? Paperback a million times over.

Alexis: Thanks for the interview, Janine!

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Author Bio:

Prone to wander, Janine Rosche finds as much comfort on the open road as she does at home. 


This longing to chase adventure, behold splendor, and experience redemption is woven into her Madison River Romance series. 

When she isn’t writing or traveling, she teaches family life education courses to college students, takes too many pictures of her sleeping dogs, and embarrasses her four children and husband with boy band serenades.

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Blurb for This Wandering Heart:




In the first entry in the Madison River Romance series, Keira Knudsen gets the traveling opportunity of a lifetime, but when she reunites with her first love, Robbie, she learns that even a wandering heart needs a home. ... 

No one in the quaint town of West Yellowstone, Montana, knows that unassuming geography teacher Keira Knudsen moonlights as sensational travel blogger Kat Wanderfull. No one, that is, except for her first love, Robbie Matthews, who has just discovered the woman he is falling for online is the same one that broke his heart five years ago.

But Robbie has another problem: the mother of his daughter, Anabelle, has resurfaced after a three-year absence determined to rip Anabelle away from him. Robbie needs a steady paycheck for a chance at custody, and now, on the eve of a grand adventure that could give Keira a chance to flee her old, troubled life once and for all, she is in need of assistance.

With so much broken trust between them, Keira and Robbie must keep an arms-length away to make this partnership work. But the more time they spend together, exploring majestic places and sharing new experiences, the closer they get–until their secrets and dreams threaten to cost them everything.

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Buy Janine's book on Amazon or Barnes and Noble

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Connect with Janine:
Website: http://www.JanineRosche.com
Facebook Author Page: http://www.facebook.com/janineroscheauthor
Reader group, The Love Wander Read Book Club:

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Monday, June 1, 2020

Devotionals for the Heart: Why we need to love difficult people


Loving difficult people

A devotional by Jessica Brodie

They’re everywhere, aren’t they? That critical coworker always on your case. That backstabbing neighbor who pretends to be your friend yet gossips behind your back. That passive-aggressive family member or drama-hungry colleague always stirring up emotional chaos. Even your sweet child or spouse, who also happens to know exactly how to push all your buttons and drive you bonkers.

Whatever label you attach—rude, mean, judgmental, antagonistic, snide, or just plain annoying—“difficult” people aren’t always easy to love. Maybe they’ve always been difficult, but you’re forced to interact with them because you are closely connected, such as a relative. Or maybe they’re normally just fine, but they’re going through a rough patch, such as a breakup, death, mental health crisis, or job loss, and not dealing with it well.

These are the folks whose phone calls send that “oh, no” dread into the pit of your stomach, who you’re tempted to find out have RSVP’d before you accept that party invitation, who you avoid when you see coming so you don’t have to interact with them in the hallway. Sometimes, they have the ability to turn your sunshiny day into a gloom of despair. Sometimes, it’s a nonstop fight.

Over the years, I’ve known a lot of difficult people. Truth be told, sometimes I’ve been that “difficult person,” myself. I’ve had dark phases where I was filled with insecurity, envy, ambition, greed, fury, and wildly unrealistic expectations. I didn’t even like my own company very much, and I imagine others didn’t either.

As a Christian, how do we deal with “difficult people”? Jesus commands us to “love thy neighbor” (Matthew 22:36-40), but does that mean we have to like them, too?

The short answer: Yes.

Here’s the thing—difficult people are nothing new. We’ve grumbled, complained, lusted, lied, thieved, and envied our way through relationships since the days of Adam and Eve. People can be wonderful, loyal, loving, and supportive companions, but we can also be real jerks to each other—even (and sometimes especially) to those we love. Now, if that difficult person in your life is abusive in some way, that is different. Abuse is illegal, dangerous, and by no means permissible or explainable.

But for those “regular” difficult types, I offer two key things that can help you as a Christian love—and even like, or perhaps just tolerate—that person better.

The first is looking within. Are their behaviors a little too “close to home”? Many times, I feel an aversion to someone who reminds me of myself in some way—and particularly of things I don’t like about myself and strive to push past. Maybe you have far more in common with that “annoying coworker” than you think you do. Maybe she’s just an earlier version of you, and you could help her evolve just like someone else helped you.

In Matthew 7, Jesus said, “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye’” (Matthew 7:3-5 NIV).

Think about it. Pray about it.

The second is grace. Other than Jesus, I’ve never met a single perfect person—myself included. God made every one of us, and He loves every one of us in spite of this. Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ died on the cross to pay the debt of our sins so we could have eternal life, and He did this not because of anything we accomplished, but because of the vast and inexplicable love He has for us. We are to model that, too, as best as possible, including when that is not easy. That’s called grace.

As the apostle Paul wrote to the early church in Colossae, “Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity” (Colossians 3:12-14 NIV).

Remember: Love is quite often a choice, not an emotion. It’s deciding to accept a person, flaws and all, and walk beside them. It’s choosing to care for them as much as or even more than you care for yourself.

Choose to love. Choose grace. Choose compassion.

And live in the full freedom of Christ.

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Author Bio:

Jessica Brodie is an award-winning Christian novelist, journalist, editor, blogger, and writing coach and the recipient of the 2018 American Christian Fiction Writers Genesis Award for her novel, The Memory Garden.

She is also the editor of the South Carolina United Methodist Advocate, the oldest newspaper in Methodism. Learn more about her fiction and read her faith blog at http://jessicabrodie.com.

You can also connect with her on YouTube, Facebook, Twitter, and more. She’s also produced a free eBook, A God-Centered Life: 10 Faith-Based Practices When You’re Feeling Anxious, Grumpy, or Stressed.