
From Tears to Hope: Embracing the God Who Sees
A devotional by Patti Schultz, Ed.D.
Then she called the name of the Lord who spoke to her, You-Are-the-God-Who-Sees; for she said, “Have I also here seen Him who sees me?”—Genesis 16:13 (NKJV)
God noticed her pain, her tears, and her silent heartbreak. He offered her gentle comfort and renewed hope even when she felt abandoned and invisible. Just as He compassionately saw the woman in the Bible, God sees you. He notices every ache in your body, every tear streaming down your face, and every prayer in your heart.
I understand what it feels like to be unseen in the throes your own profound pain. Over the course of a decade, I endured the heartbreaking loss of nearly a dozen precious babies at various stages of pregnancy. Each loss shattered my heart and left me feeling fragile and vulnerable. During those times, I watched the people who I love (friends and family members) celebrate new life as I witnessed their joyful reactions to their positive pregnancy tests. I cried internally while being outwardly happy for them as I saw these expectant mothers prepare nursery decorations. I tried not to focus on the deep pain of my own dreams of motherhood not coming true yet as I received invitations to their baby showers. It often felt as if my grief was too heavy and too silent for others to truly see or understand.
There were moments when I questioned whether God noticed my pain or if He truly cared about my tears. This kind of overwhelming loneliness can feel isolating because it is an ache that words struggle to express. If you are feeling this way now, please know that you are not alone in your suffering. Your grief matters and your heartbreak is seen by a compassionate God who longs to bring comfort and healing to your broken heart.
During these dark and lonely moments, I clung desperately to the truth that El Roi, the God Who Sees, is near, especially in our times of deepest pain. He saw my heartbreak—every tear, every silent cry—when no one else could. His presence was a gentle reassurance that I was not forgotten. His love didn’t diminish because of my suffering; it became a soothing balm to my wounded soul. I learned through tears and trembling that even in my most vulnerable moments, God was holding me tenderly, weeping with me, and whispering promises of hope and renewal. His compassion is greater than any pain we carry. He understands the aches of your heart and longs to wrap you in His comforting embrace.
Take gentle comfort in the beautiful truth that we serve a God who sees us—truly, deeply, compassionately. He understands your grief, your frustration, your hopes, and even your moments of despair. He is not distant or indifferent to your suffering; He is right there with you, walking beside you in your pain. He sees your heartache and the deep sting within your soul, and His love for you is unwavering. In your moments of weakness, He is your strength and in your moments of sorrow, He is your comfort.
You are immensely precious in His sight—cherished beyond measure. God longs to surround you with His comforting love and to fill your heart with renewed hope in the midst of your struggles. He knows the deepest desires of your heart, those quiet hopes and unspoken prayers. Trust in His perfect timing, even when it feels slow or uncertain, and rest in His never-ending love. Believe that His plans for you are filled with purpose and hope, even if they differ from what you may expect or imagine. Hold onto the hope that, in His mercy and grace, He will transform your sorrow into joy, turning your mourning into dancing, and your tears into a testament of His faithfulness.
Remember, just as God saw me in my pain and carried me through those dark valleys in my life story, He sees you too. Nothing about your suffering is hidden from His compassionate gaze. Lean into His promises, cling to His unwavering love, and know that His mercy is new every morning. Your story is still being written by the One who holds all things together. In His perfect time, He will bring beauty from your ashes and joy from your mourning. Be assured that His love for you is unfailing, and His goodness will shine through even the hardest seasons.
Let’s Pray:
Heavenly Father, El Roi, the God who sees and understands, we come before You with heavy hearts burdened by infertility for some of us and other types of loss for others. Help us to trust that You see our tears and silent prayers and love us unconditionally. Please comfort us with Your gentle presence, strengthen our faith, and help us to trust in Your perfect timing, even when the journey feels long. May Your peace fill our souls, turning our sorrow into joy, and remind us that we are precious in Your sight, held safely in Your loving hands.
In Jesus’s name I pray. Amen.
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Song of Reflection #1: “The God Who Sees” by Nicole C. Mullen. Listen to it here.
Song of Reflection #2: “You Say” by Lauren Daigle | ASL cover by Bee Adams. Listen to it here.
Song of Reflection #3: “The Blessing” by Kari Jobe | ASL cover by Deaf Millennial Project. Listen to it here.
Song of Reflection #1: “The God Who Sees” by Nicole C. Mullen. Listen to it here.
Song of Reflection #2: “You Say” by Lauren Daigle | ASL cover by Bee Adams. Listen to it here.
Song of Reflection #3: “The Blessing” by Kari Jobe | ASL cover by Deaf Millennial Project. Listen to it here.
Song of Reflection #4: “Never Alone” by Barlow Girl. Listen to it here.
Song of Reflection #5: “Every Single Tear” by Scott Krippayne. Listen to it here.
Song of Reflection #6: “Friend of a Wounded Heart” by Wayne Watson. Listen to it here.
Song of Reflection #7: “His Strength is Perfect” by CeCe Winans. Listen to it here.
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Author Bio:
Dr. Patti Schultz’s inspiring journey weaves a tapestry of compassion, resilience, and divine hope.

Formerly a public school principal, professor, teacher, and interpreter for the deaf, she now dedicates her life to a heartfelt ministry rooted in her personal experiences.
As a mother to three miracle boys here on Earth and a member of a heavenly soccer team, Patti’s story is one of unwavering faith and profound love. Her decade-long battle with infertility and recurrent loss fuels her deep compassion for grieving mothers, guiding them toward healing through the comforting embrace of Jesus Christ’s garment.
Patti’s gentle wisdom offers a safe haven for women navigating pain, reminding them they are never alone. Through her ministry, she seeks to envelop grieving mothers in divine comfort, encouraging hope, renewal, and the reassurance that God's love is always near, wrapping them in His compassionate hem as they walk the path to healing.
Living in northern Michigan, she cherishes precious moments with family and community, drawing strength from faith and connection.
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