Devotionals for the Heart: When you feel blindsided and off course in life

When Life Isn’t Just Fun and Games
A devotional by Suzanne Felton

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”—Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV)

Have you ever played “Pin the Tail on the Donkey”?

It is a children’s game where everyone stands across the room from a large picture of a donkey without a tail (or a clown without a nose, or a cowboy without a hat, etc.). All you have to do when your turn comes is walk over and stick the donkey’s tail in the proper place. That seems easy enough, but what makes the game challenging—and fun—is that you’re blindfolded and spun around first so that pinning the tail in the right spot becomes nearly impossible. The poor donkey ends up with many tails in all the wrong places, and everyone laughs at the results.

Sometimes life feels like a game of “Pin the Tail on the Donkey”. You can see your goal clearly, and the path to reach it seems easy, but then, out of nowhere, you’re blindsided, spun around, and disoriented, and you end up way off course. When it’s real life, though, it’s anything but funny. You thought you had everything under control. You thought you knew where you were going. You thought you knew exactly how to get there. Instead, you find yourself somewhere entirely different with no idea what to do next.

Does this sound familiar? Maybe you started a new business thinking it was a sure thing, only to find yourself one year later with no profits and no idea how to recover your investment. Maybe you moved to a new state to be near a loved one, but that relationship became strained, and now you feel like an outsider in an unfamiliar community. Maybe you were expecting a promotion in the job you put your heart and soul into for years, only to be let go. Maybe you finally found the courage to trust someone, only to have that trust broken. Whatever your story, I’d bet there’s been a time in your life when you felt like you stuck your pin in the worst possible place.

The book of Exodus in the Bible tells the story of how the Israelites, God’s chosen people, miraculously escaped slavery in Egypt. Led by Moses, they set off triumphantly toward a new land God had promised to give them. If they had taken the most direct route, they probably could have made the trip on foot in under two weeks, but the journey took them forty years. Forty years. Talk about a detour!

God allowed the Israelites to wander in the desert for so long because there were things He wanted to teach them before they reached the Promised Land. The people were not expecting such a long and winding journey. They questioned and complained along the way, but God knew what was best for them.

Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us we should not rely on our own understanding as we walk through life. Our paths will only become straight, it says, when we submit our lives to God and trust Him completely. When we rely on our own understanding, thinking we can find the target and reach our goals on our own, we stick our pins in the wrong places. However, when we learn to trust God, we will we end up exactly where He wants us to be.

If you feel like you’re wandering right now, like you have been blindfolded and spun around and can’t find where to stick your pin, perhaps God has something He wants to teach you. You may not yet understand the reason you got off course but trust Him to lead you every step of the way, and He will fulfill His promise.

Let’s Pray: Heavenly Father, sometimes I venture off course in my life, and I feel disoriented and confused. Help me stop leaning on my own understanding and to trust You with my whole heart. Make my path straight and keep me in the center of Your will. In Jesus’s Name I pray. Amen.

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Song of Reflection #1: “Proverbs 3:5-6 (Trust the Lord)” by Warrior. Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #2: “Order My Steps” by GMWA Women of Worship. Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #3: “Lead Me Lord” by Brooklyn Tabernacle Choir w/Elizabeth Goodine. Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #4: “Made A Way” by Travis Greene. Listen to it here.

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Author Bio:

Suzanne Felton is a wife, mother, writer, reader, teacher, birder, deep thinker, and sinner saved by grace. 

She has worked in a wide range of settings, from non-profits to science labs to government contracts to educational classrooms. Amazed by the power of words, she currently uses her passion and experience to help authors and students as a writing coach. Encouraging others to find the words and the courage to share their stories is one of her greatest joys.

Suzanne’s devotionals have been published in periodicals and blogs including Truly Magazine, The Upper Room, The Love Offering, Keys 4 Kids, and The Swallow’s Nest. She is also a two-time finalist in the Cascade Christian Writing Contest for poetry.

Suzanne and her family reside in Northern Virginia, but Suzanne will always call her native South Carolina home.

Married to her best friend for twenty-six years, Suzanne is active in her church, where she and her husband serve as deacons and small group leaders. They enjoy watching sports and visiting national parks with their two college-age sons.

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Connect with Suzanne:
Website: suzannefelton.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/l.suzanne.felton
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/l_suzanne_felton/
Email: suzannefeltonwriter@gmail.com

Devotionals for the Heart: Why we should look up to Jesus Christ

Look Up
A devotional by Suzanne Felton

“When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy.”

—Matthew 2:10 (ESV)

I have an early memory of being in a very crowded store with my mom during the holiday rush. As a small child, all I could see was a jungle of feet, legs, purses, and shopping bags all around me.

As we waited in the long checkout line, I must have been fascinated by my surroundings because I remember reaching out distractedly to grab my mother’s hand, only to realize that the hand I grabbed did not belong to my mother! Fear seized me in that moment, but fortunately, I looked up and saw a kind stranger’s face, and then my mother’s face smiling down at me, and all was made right.

The Christmas season can be overwhelming. Everywhere you turn, signs of the season are on non-stop full display, vying for your attention. Store displays, television commercials, radio playlists, neighborhood lights, and more bombard us from every direction. That’s not to mention all the holiday parties, pageants, potlucks, and other events that fill our Christmas calendars. All good things, but with so much going on at once, it’s easy to get swept up in the festivities and lose sight of what’s most important.

The Magi, or “wise men,” are familiar characters from the Bible’s Christmas story. They were educated men from an eastern land who recognized a new star in the night sky as an announcement of the Messiah’s birth. They followed the star in search of the newborn king. When they reached Jerusalem, they knew they were close, so they asked around for specific directions, saying, “Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him” (Matthew 2:2 NIV).

I wonder what it was like for the Magi when they arrived in the big, bustling city of Jerusalem, a place foreign to them where they knew no one, surrounded by unfamiliar sights and sounds. Were they expecting the people to already know about the birth of the Messiah, since the star they’d followed was there for all to see? That doesn’t seem to have been the case, since the questions they asked in town caused quite a stir. The Bible says in Matthew 2:3 (ESV), “When Herod the king heard this, he was troubled, and all Jerusalem with him.” The arrival of the wise men and the things they spoke of must have been huge news in Jerusalem. People were probably talking about it in the streets, spreading rumors, and crowding around the Magi, offering their unsolicited advice. Even King Herod heard about it. He summoned the wise men to meet him and gave them his own underhanded instructions.

I imagine the Magi left the buzzing city feeling a bit overwhelmed. They’d been told where to go by Herod, and probably others, too, but it wasn’t until they looked up and saw the star that they knew they were back on the right track. The Bible says in Matthew 2:9-10 (ESV), “After listening to the king, they went on their way. And behold, the star that they had seen when it rose went before them until it came to rest over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy.” It was by keeping their eyes on the star that they found Jesus Christ.

As you enjoy all the trimmings and trappings of the Christmas season, remember to look up and keep your eyes on the holy light that still shines in the darkness so that you will find Jesus in the midst of it all.

Let’s Pray:

Dear God,

Thank You for sending your son Jesus into the world to save us from our sins. When we feel overwhelmed or distracted by the world’s expectations and distractions during this busy time of year, help us to pause and look up to You to guide us to the true joy and meaning of Christmas. In Jesus’s Name I pray. Amen.

Song of Reflection #1: “Oh, Holy Night” by Nat King Cole. Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #2: “Look Up, Child” by Lauren Daigle. Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #3: “Light of the World” by Brooklyn Tabernacle Choir. Listen to it here. 

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Author Bio:

Suzanne Felton has been a writer for most of her life, even before she realized it. 

She has worked in a wide range of settings, from non-profits to science labs to government contracts to educational classrooms, all of which involved writing in one form or another.

Suzanne is amazed by the power of words and now uses her passion and experience to help authors and students as a writing coach. Encouraging others to find the words and the courage to share their stories is one of her greatest joys.

Suzanne’s devotionals have been published in periodicals and blogs including The Upper Room, The Love Offering, Keys 4 Kids, and The Swallow’s Nest. She is also a two-time finalist in the Cascade Christian Writing Contest for poetry.

She is a wife, mother, writer, reader, teacher, deep thinker, and sinner saved by grace. Suzanne and her family reside in Northern Virginia, but Suzanne will always call her native South Carolina home.

Married to her best friend for twenty-five years, Suzanne is active in her church, where she and her husband have served as deacons for over a decade. They enjoy watching sports and visiting national parks with their two teenage sons. Suzanne is also an avid birder, easily and happily distracted by anything with feathers.

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Connect with Suzanne:
Website: https://suzannefelton.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/l_suzanne_felton
Email address: suzannefeltonwriter@gmail.com

Devotionals for the Heart: Jesus Christ is knocking on the door of your heart

Someone’s at the Door
A devotional by Suzanne Felton

“Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me.”

—Revelation 3:20 (NIV)

What do you do when the doorbell rings?

To be honest, I must admit that when the doorbell rings at my house, my first instinct is to pretend I’m not home. It’s probably just someone selling something, I think to myself. Then I stay quiet and still, hoping whoever it is will give up and go away. If I’m unlucky enough to betray my presence, I’ll open the door just enough to politely cut off their sales pitch without buying in.

Nowadays, we hardly ever need to answer the doorbell at all. High-tech doorbells with cameras and speakers allow us to see and speak to visitors on the outside without going near the door or even being at home. With services like DoorDash and Amazon that offer “contactless” delivery, we can receive our packages and never have to interact with the people who bring them.

Today’s American culture seems far removed from earlier times when answering the door was not considered a hassle or an unusual thing to do. Before the age of telephones, a bell ring or a knock was the only way for visitors to make their presence known. Having guests drop by unexpectedly was commonplace, and it was considered polite to welcome them inside. There are still cultures today that retain a deep-rooted tradition of hospitality, placing value on always being ready to welcome visitors into the home. However, right or wrong, ours seems more focused on safety and security.

What would you do if Jesus Christ knocked on your door?

We could rationalize that it’s difficult to interpret the metaphor of Jesus standing at the door and knocking in contemporary terms, since times have changed and our modern way of thinking about a knock at the door is vastly different than it would have been in Bible times. We might even dismiss it entirely. If we really think about it, though, our modern way of reacting to knocks and doorbells might actually be an apt illustration of how we treat Jesus at times.

Many people who consider themselves Christians have never truly opened the door to Jesus. Some tend to think of Jesus as an impersonal figure who taught the masses from a hillside, bestowing wisdom on them from a distance. They think of him as a good leader whose teachings should be followed in order to become a good person. In a way, that’s like thinking of him as a contactless delivery driver who leaves a package for you to open and use at your convenience. Others pray, but when they do, it’s as if they’re addressing an intimidating stranger, keeping their prayers formal and ritualistic. They “talk to God” but never have a real conversation. That’s sort of like answering Jesus’s knock through an electronic speaker or only cracking the door slightly, never fully listening to what he has to say.

Jesus is anything but impersonal, and this verse from the book of Revelation clearly illustrates that truth: “Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me” (Revelation 3:20 NIV). Jesus is speaking here, and He tells us that He’s at the door, knocking and calling out to us. He will not leave what He’s bringing on the doorstep and go away; He will continue to knock until we open the door and invite Him in. More than that, if we let Him in, He won’t just stand in the foyer and exchange pleasantries with us. Jesus will come all the way inside the house, sit down at the table, and share a meal with us.

Jesus comes to have relationship with us. He wants to fully enter our lives so that we can know Him and walk closely with Him every day. Many Christians would say they know this, but how many of us truly “open the door”? Do we let Jesus all the way into our lives, or do we keep the door closed as a barrier, keeping Him at a distance, content to stay within the security of the walls we’ve built around our hearts?

Opening the door—literally or figuratively—can feel inconvenient, uncomfortable, or even scary. It makes us vulnerable. But when we think of Jesus standing on the other side, knocking and calling our names, isn’t it worth letting Him in? Jesus wants to enter our lives and have deep relationship with us, but He will neither force His way in nor leave a package on the doorstep. It’s up to us to answer the door, invite Him inside, and sit down with Him at the table.

Let’s Pray: 

Dear God, 

Thank You for sending Your Son to reconcile us to You. When we hear Jesus at the door, help us not to pretend we’re not home, but to open it wide and let him all the way into our hearts. 

In Jesus’s name we pray, Amen.

Song of Reflection #1: “Someone’s at the Door” by Nathaniel Bassey. Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #2: “He's Calling You” by Donnie McClurkin. Listen to it here.

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Author Bio:

Suzanne Felton has been a writer for most of her life, even before she realized it. 

She has worked in a wide range of settings, from non-profits to science labs to government contracts to educational classrooms, all of which involved writing in one form or another.

Suzanne is amazed by the power of words and now uses her passion and experience to help authors and students as a writing coach. Encouraging others to find the words and the courage to share their stories is one of her greatest joys.

Suzanne’s devotionals have been published in periodicals and blogs including The Upper Room, The Love Offering, Keys 4 Kids, and The Swallow’s Nest. She is also a two-time finalist in the Cascade Christian Writing Contest for poetry.

She is a wife, mother, writer, reader, teacher, deep thinker, and sinner saved by grace. Suzanne and her family reside in Northern Virginia, but Suzanne will always call her native South Carolina home.

Married to her best friend for twenty-five years, Suzanne is active in her church, where she and her husband have served as deacons for over a decade. They enjoy watching sports and visiting national parks with their two teenage sons. Suzanne is also an avid birder, easily and happily distracted by anything with feathers.

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Connect with Suzanne:
Website: https://suzannefelton.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/l_suzanne_felton
Email address: suzannefeltonwriter@gmail.com

Devotionals for the Heart: When God's standards for living seem too high

Impossibly High Standards
A devotional by Suzanne Felton

“Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.”

—Matthew 5:48 (NIV)

Of all the verses in the Bible, I think I’ve wrestled with this one (above) more than any other. As a perfectionist and rule-follower by nature, I want to be perfect. I want to get everything right every time. I hate making mistakes.

Perfection is the ultimate high standard, so shouldn’t we all strive to be perfect? In this verse (above) spoken by Jesus Christ, the answer is yes. But I’m not perfect. And I can’t be, no matter how hard I try. It’s hopeless.

Romans 3:23 clearly tells us that no one (apart from Jesus) is perfect. It says, “…for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (NIV). When we fall short of perfection, we tend to start comparing ourselves to others. Either we look for some way to make ourselves feel superior to someone else (thinking: At least I’m not as bad as she is.) or we put ourselves down and feel sorry for ourselves (thinking: Who could love a loser like me?). Neither of these mindsets are pleasing to God.

Part of the problem is that humans tend to define perfection by human standards. It feels good to get a perfect score on a test, play a perfect game, or have a perfect driving record. Those things are nice, but they’re insignificant in the grand scheme of things. But how often do we think in terms of wanting things like the “perfect” job, a “perfect” body, or a “perfect” relationship? We try to meet the world’s standards through our own efforts, but there’s always someone else who we perceive as having more or doing it better than we do.

When Jesus speaks of being perfect, He is not referring to worldly standards. He’s taking about following God’s laws perfectly. The writer of Psalm 119 expresses a longing to follow God’s laws perfectly while knowing that it’s not humanly possible. He wrote, “You have laid down precepts that are to be fully obeyed. Oh, that my ways were steadfast in obeying your decrees. Then I would not be put to shame when I consider all your commands” (Psalm 119:4-6 NIV).

I think that perfectionism is part of human nature. We all want to get things right. No one likes to fail. But we all do, all the time, and when we measure ourselves honestly by God’s standard of perfection, our failure seems even greater. If we all have an innate desire to be perfect, but none of us can achieve perfection, then why did Jesus tell us to be perfect?

A turning point of understanding Christ’s command to be perfect came for me when I finally read Romans 3:23 and the verse that follows it as one complete thought. It reads, “. . .for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus” (Romans 3:23-24 NIV). The Apostle Paul wrote the Bible book of Romans. He doesn’t end this sentence after pronouncing us all to be sinners and failures. He writes that, yes, we are all sinners who fall short of God’s standard of perfection, and we are all justified, or made right again, through the death and resurrection of His Son (Jesus Christ).

When we realize that we are all sinners, we can stop comparing ourselves to each other. No one can measure up to God’s perfect standard, and God’s standard is the only one that matters. We’re all in the same boat: equally sinful and equally deserving of God’s punishment. The wonderful news, though, is that we are also all equally loved. God’s gift of salvation through Christ is freely available to everyone who will receive it. Jesus is the way to perfection for all of us.

I love the way The Message version of the Bible translates Hebrews 10:14-15. Scripture reads, “It was a perfect sacrifice by a perfect person to perfect some very imperfect people. By that single offering, he did everything that needed to be done for everyone who takes part in the purifying process.” God is our Creator. He made us, and He knew all along that we would never be able to keep his laws perfectly through our own efforts. I believe He gave us that innate desire for perfection not just to show us how far short we fall, but to draw us to Jesus.

Christ’s command to be perfect in Matthew 5:48 is both a reminder that we all need perfecting as well as an invitation to be perfected by Him. God’s impossibly high standard will never change, but neither will His boundless love for us. Now that’s perfect!

Let’s Pray: Dear God, I know that I fall far short of your perfect standard. Thank You that I am not a hopeless case because I am made perfect through the perfect sacrifice of Jesus Christ. Thank You, Lord! In Jesus’s Name I pray. Amen.

Song of Reflection: “How Marvelous” by Austin Stone Worship. Listen to it here.

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Author Bio:

Suzanne Felton has been a writer for most of her life, even before she realized it. 

She has worked in a wide range of settings, from non-profits to science labs to government contracts to educational classrooms, all of which involved writing in one form or another.

Suzanne is amazed by the power of words and now uses her passion and experience to help authors and students as a writing coach. Encouraging others to find the words and the courage to share their stories is one of her greatest joys.

Suzanne’s devotionals have been published in periodicals and blogs including The Upper Room, The Love Offering, Keys 4 Kids, and The Swallow’s Nest. She is also a two-time finalist in the Cascade Christian Writing Contest for poetry.

She is a wife, mother, writer, reader, teacher, deep thinker, and sinner saved by grace. Suzanne and her family reside in Northern Virginia, but Suzanne will always call her native South Carolina home.

Married to her best friend for twenty-five years, Suzanne is active in her church, where she and her husband have served as deacons for over a decade. They enjoy watching sports and visiting national parks with their two teenage sons. Suzanne is also an avid birder, easily and happily distracted by anything with feathers.

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Connect with Suzanne:
Website: https://suzannefelton.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/l_suzanne_felton
Email address: suzannefeltonwriter@gmail.com

Devotionals for the Heart: How to discover the power of letting go

The Power of Letting Go
A devotional by Suzanne Felton

“Those who cling to worthless idols turn away from God’s love for them.”

—Jonah 2:8 (NIV)

Perhaps you’ve heard the story—attributed to various tribes depending on who tells it—about how a hunter can catch a monkey using nothing but a hollowed-out coconut and a piece of fruit. The hunter places the fruit inside the coconut through a small hole in the shell and secures the trap to a tree. When a hungry monkey comes along, it reaches through the hole, grabs the fruit, and tries to pull it out, but can’t. Its fist is too big for the hole.

But wait, you might be thinking. All the monkey has to do is let go of the fruit, slip its hand out of the coconut, and run free. You would be right, but what the hunters know is that monkeys will not let go of the fruit, even when their captors come to take them away. They keep holding on until it’s too late.

Aren’t we all like those monkeys sometimes? Humans have a hard time letting go. Maybe it’s an innate survival instinct, or a mindset taught by culture, or a combination of both, but people tend to grab hold of things within their reach and cling tightly to them. “Mine” is a word children learn early, use often, and carry into adulthood. We humans love to obtain, collect, and accumulate as much as we can, building bigger barns or renting more storage units to keep it all in. It’s what we do.

In a world that is constantly telling us that we can have everything we want, and that we deserve to have it all right now, it’s hard not to grab onto things that bring us instant gratification, especially when we’re hungry or in pain or facing difficult circumstances. The fruit in the coconut can seem like the solution to our immediate problems, so we grab onto it. With our fists closed around the wrong things, however, we cannot receive God’s greater blessings.

The Bible tells of a time when a wealthy young man approached Jesus Christ and asked him what he needed to do to have eternal life (Matthew 19:16-22). Jesus told him he must sell all his possessions, give to the poor, and then follow Him. Instead of jumping at the chance to do what was necessary to get what he’d asked for, the Bible says the man went away sad. He was not willing to let go of what he had in the here and now, so he could not receive God’s eternal blessing.

The things we cling to in the moment aren’t necessarily bad things. God knows we need food, money, and material possessions in our earthly lives. It’s when we hold on too tightly, when we begin to trust in the things themselves instead of the One who gives them to meet our needs, that those things become idols that turn us away from Him. With our focus on idols, we become trapped and fail to see the danger that’s coming because of it.

Jesus understood human nature. He was tempted in the desert by the devil to seize things that might have brought him temporary satisfaction in the here and now (Matthew 4:1-11). Later, facing death, He asked his Father (God) if there was any way to avoid the pain and suffering He knew was coming (Matthew 26:39). Each time Jesus chose not to take the easy way out—to grab the fruit in the coconut—but said instead, “Yet not as I will, but as you will” (Matthew 26:39 NIV).

Jesus knew the power of letting go. He set the ultimate example of avoiding the trap of instant gratification. We can read about it in Philippians 2:5-9 (TLB) that says, “Your attitude should be the kind that was shown us by Jesus Christ, who, though he was God, did not demand and cling to his rights as God, but laid aside his mighty power and glory, taking the disguise of a slave and becoming like men. And he humbled himself even further, going so far as actually to die a criminal’s death on a cross. Yet it was because of this that God raised him up to the heights of heaven and gave him a name which is above every other name.”

When God asks us to let go of our idols, He’s not just trying to take away things that make us happy. He wants us to open our hands and our hearts to receive His blessings that bring eternal joy.

Let’s Pray: Dear God, help me to recognize the things in my life that I’m holding too tightly and taking my focus off of You. Help me let go of my idols before I become trapped by them. Thank You for Jesus, who set the example for us. In Jesus’s name we pray. Amen.

Song of Reflection: “First Things First” by Consumed By Fire. Listen to it here.

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Author Bio:

Suzanne Felton has been a writer for most of her life, even before she realized it. 

She has worked in a wide range of settings, from non-profits to science labs to government contracts to educational classrooms, all of which involved writing in one form or another.

Suzanne is amazed by the power of words and now uses her passion and experience to help authors and students as a writing coach. Encouraging others to find the words and the courage to share their stories is one of her greatest joys.

Suzanne’s devotionals have been published in periodicals and blogs including The Upper Room, The Love Offering, Keys 4 Kids, and The Swallow’s Nest. She is also a two-time finalist in the Cascade Christian Writing Contest for poetry.

She is a wife, mother, writer, reader, teacher, deep thinker, and sinner saved by grace. Suzanne and her family reside in Northern Virginia, but Suzanne will always call her native South Carolina home.

Married to her best friend for twenty-five years, Suzanne is active in her church, where she and her husband have served as deacons for over a decade. They enjoy watching sports and visiting national parks with their two teenage sons. Suzanne is also an avid birder, easily and happily distracted by anything with feathers.

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Connect with Suzanne:
Website: https://suzannefelton.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/l_suzanne_felton
Email address: suzannefeltonwriter@gmail.com

Devotionals for the Heart: Why God's purpose for us in this life is clear

A Clear Purpose Given to Us by God
A devotional by Suzanne Felton

“Glorify the Lord with me; let us exalt his name together.”

—Psalm 34:3 (NIV)

What’s my purpose?

I have often wrestled with that question throughout my life. How often have I asked God to give me a clear answer or help me figure it out? How often have I feared that I’ve gotten it wrong or totally missed the boat?

I remember learning the Bible verse Romans 8:28 for the first time when I was young. It reads, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” I remember feeling such joy knowing that God had a purpose for my life—a calling for me—and that scripture became my “life verse”. I understood the verse, as many people do, to mean that God had a specific, detailed plan for me, and that I needed to discover exactly what it was it in order to fulfill His purpose for my life. As time went by, I’d often worry that I was getting it wrong or that I’d missed the path God had laid out for me.

While I still believe that God has a plan for each of us, the more I read God’s Word, the more I’m convinced that discovering God’s purpose is not as complicated as I used to think.

Matthew chapter 5 through Matthew chapter 7 records Jesus Christ’s “Sermon on the Mount,” in which He teaches His followers God’s standards for how we should live, love, and serve. In Matthew 5:13-16 (NIV), Jesus uses metaphors of salt and light to illustrate some of this teaching. He said, “You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot. You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”

In the past, when I’ve read this passage or heard it taught, the focus was always on what it means to be salt and what it means to be light and how we as Christ’s followers can become those things. There is deep symbolism worth exploring in Jesus’s use of salt and light—two ordinary things common in both Jesus’s day and ours—as teaching tools, but when I read this passage again recently, I saw something new. “You are the salt of the earth” (verse 13a). “You are the light of the world” (verse 14a). As He speaks to His disciples, Jesus does not take time to explain what it means to be like salt and light or what they must do in order to become more like them. It’s a given that they already are those things.

In verse 13, Jesus says that salt that stops being “salty” is no longer good for anything and should be discarded. In verses 14-16, he describes the absurdity of trying to hide a light that’s already shining. If a salt shaker or a lamp isn’t serving its inherent purpose, then what’s the point? That goes right along with my initial understanding of Romans 8:28. Jesus wants us to remember that we were created with a purpose, and that if we’re living in a way that doesn’t fulfill that purpose, our lives lack meaning. What Jesus does not say is that our God-given purpose is a mystery that must be figured out. In fact, he clearly tells us what that purpose is in Matthew 5:16 (NIV): “let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”

To bring glory to our Father in Heaven. That’s the point. That’s our purpose. How have I missed that before?

Every day we’re faced with countless decisions, some of greater importance than others. As Christians, we pray that God will lead us to make the right decisions, but as humans we inevitably fail sometimes and make the wrong ones. Sometimes there may not even be a bad option, but we can still only choose one or the other.

Instead of becoming paralyzed by “what ifs,” perhaps we should focus more on glorifying God in all that we do. Perhaps we shouldn’t worry so much about whether every single step we choose to take is the one God has chosen for us, but rather choose to glorify Him in every single step we take. When that is our purpose, He will surely keep us on the right path.

Let’s Pray: Heavenly Father, thank You for creating me with a purpose. Help me to glorify You in all that I do, and may my life lead others to glorify You, too. In Jesus’s Name I pray. Amen.

Song of Reflection #1: “Psalm 34” by Brooklyn Tabernacle Choir. Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #2: “Born with a Purpose” by Angela. Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #3: “Shine the Light” by Babbie Mason. Listen to it here.

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Author Bio:

Suzanne Felton has been a writer for most of her life, even before she realized it. 

She has worked in a wide range of settings, from non-profits to science labs to government contracts to educational classrooms, all of which involved writing in one form or another.

Suzanne is amazed by the power of words and now uses her passion and experience to help authors and students as a writing coach. Encouraging others to find the words and the courage to share their stories is one of her greatest joys.

Suzanne’s devotionals have been published in periodicals and blogs including The Upper Room, The Love Offering, Keys 4 Kids, and The Swallow’s Nest. She is also a two-time finalist in the Cascade Christian Writing Contest for poetry.

She is a wife, mother, writer, reader, teacher, deep thinker, and sinner saved by grace. Suzanne and her family reside in Northern Virginia, but Suzanne will always call her native South Carolina home.

Married to her best friend for twenty-five years, Suzanne is active in her church, where she and her husband have served as deacons for over a decade. They enjoy watching sports and visiting national parks with their two teenage sons. Suzanne is also an avid birder, easily and happily distracted by anything with feathers.

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Connect with Suzanne:
Website: https://suzannefelton.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/l_suzanne_felton
Email address: suzannefeltonwriter@gmail.com

Devotionals for the Heart: A gift given to you by God to save your soul

A Gift of God
A devotional by Suzanne Felton

“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.”—Ephesians 2:8-9 (NIV)

A well-worn easy chair, a threadbare jacket, and an old pair of shoes are used everyday items of no apparent value. They might have been nice at one time, but now they’re worn out and dated, not even fit for donation.

Why, then, were these things locked in a glass display case protected by state-of-the-art security systems? Why were people from all over the world gazing at them as if they were the most amazing chair, jacket, and shoes they’d ever seen?

I saw this display at the National Museum of American History. The chair was Archie Bunker’s iconic wingback from the TV show “All in the Family”, the jacket was worn by Fonzie from “Happy Days”, and the shoes belonged to Dorothy in “The Wizard of Oz” (movie). Items that would have been overlooked or thrown away under ordinary circumstances had become priceless treasures simply because of who they belonged to.

How often do I question my self-worth? I feel that I’m not good enough, successful enough, or beautiful enough to be loved. Then there are times when I become proud of my own achievements and feel that I deserve everyone’s praise and applause because of them. In all these times I’m forgetting the source of my true value.

The Bible tells us that God’s love is not dependent on anything we achieve or possess. It cannot be earned; it is freely given to all who will receive it. “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast” (Ephesians 2:8-9 NIV). This truth is affirmed in John 3:16 (NIV): “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” We can’t do anything to earn God’s love; it’s there for anyone and everyone who will accept it by believing in Him. He loves us all so much He gave His Son (Jesus Christ) to die for us. God thinks we’re worth dying for and He wants us to belong to His Family of believers around the world who are part of His Kingdom.

Jesus used sheep as a metaphor to illustrate this truth in John 10:11-13 (NIV). He said, “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. The hired hand is not the shepherd and does not own the sheep. So when he sees the wolf coming, he abandons the sheep and runs away. Then the wolf attacks the flock and scatters it. The man runs away because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep.” The hired hand gets paid to take care of the shepherd’s sheep, but at the first sign of trouble, he runs away to protect himself, leaving the sheep to their fate. Jesus is the good shepherd. Rather than see them slain by wolves, He will lay down his life for the sheep who belong to Him. He doesn’t say He’ll lay down his life for only certain sheep who meet certain criteria. He is willing to give His life for all the sheep who belong to Him.

After visiting the museum, I read that Archie Bunker’s chair, as well as the chair that belonged to his wife Edith on the TV set, were purchased from a thrift store for less than $10 total before the show was filmed. They were not special chairs in and of themselves; they were old and used before anyone even knew whether the TV show would be a success. Now, however, the ragged old chair has remained one of the most popular exhibits at the museum for decades, and it is considered to be priceless. All because of who it belonged to.

When you’re tempted to base your self-worth on what you’ve done, how much you have, or a label the hired-hand world has put on you, remember that your salvation is a gift from God, not of yourself. We belong to Jesus Christ. We are worth the highest price imaginable simply because of Who we belong to.

Let’s Pray: Heavenly Father, please forgive me when I forget where my true value is found. Help me to remember the incredible price You paid through the sacrifice of your Son, Jesus Christ, so that I can belong to you. In Jesus’s Name I pray. Amen.

Song of Reflection #1: “My Worth Is Not in What I Own (Live feat. Fernando Ortega)” by Keith & Kristyn Getty. Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #2: “Belong to You” by Here Be Lions. Listen to it here.

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Author Bio:

Suzanne Felton has been a writer for most of her life, even before she realized it. 

She has worked in a wide range of settings, from non-profits to science labs to government contracts to educational classrooms, all of which involved writing in one form or another.

Suzanne is amazed by the power of words and now uses her passion and experience to help authors and students as a writing coach. Encouraging others to find the words and the courage to share their stories is one of her greatest joys.

Suzanne’s devotionals have been published in periodicals and blogs including The Upper Room, The Love Offering, Keys 4 Kids, and The Swallow’s Nest. She is also a two-time finalist in the Cascade Christian Writing Contest for poetry.

She is a wife, mother, writer, reader, teacher, deep thinker, and sinner saved by grace. Suzanne and her family reside in Northern Virginia, but Suzanne will always call her native South Carolina home.

Married to her best friend for twenty-five years, Suzanne is active in her church, where she and her husband have served as deacons for over a decade. They enjoy watching sports and visiting national parks with their two teenage sons. Suzanne is also an avid birder, easily and happily distracted by anything with feathers.

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Connect with Suzanne:
Website: https://suzannefelton.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/l_suzanne_felton
Email address: suzannefeltonwriter@gmail.com

Devotionals for the Heart: Trusting the God who has all the answers we need

Unsolved Mysteries and the God who Knows Everything
A devotional by Suzanne Felton

“Can you fathom the mysteries of God? Can you probe the limits of the Almighty?”

—Job 11:7 (NIV)

I love a good mystery.

Whenever I find time to read for pleasure, I reach for a whodunnit. I scour the pages for clues as I read, trying to solve the puzzle before the fictional sleuth does. There’s a sense of satisfaction that comes from unravelling all the knots and tying up all the loose ends of the plot before reaching the end of the book.

Wouldn’t it be nice if real life were like a mystery novel? In a way, we are all amateur sleuths navigating life as best we can, using the facts and clues at hand to try to figure it all out. Sometimes we do have “aha moments” when the lightbulb goes on and the problem suddenly makes sense. But often, things happen that are simply beyond our comprehension. As one of my favorite mystery authors, Dorothy L. Sayers, once said, “Life is no candidate for the Detection Club.” Sayers, who was also a Christian apologist, explained that the “notion that all human situations are ‘problems’ like detective problems, capable of a single, necessary, and categorical solution . . . cannot be [true].”

Mystery stories appeal to our human desire for understanding. We want to know the “who, what, where, when and why” of the world around us. Any time we can make sense of something, life seems a little less overwhelming, and we feel a little more in control. Sometimes we can’t find the answers, though. Sometimes life just doesn’t make sense.

Perhaps the thoughts that ruminate in your mind are something like: I worked hard and excelled in my occupation, but I was still passed over for the promotion. I ate a healthy diet and did exercise regularly, but I still received an unwelcome diagnosis from my doctor. There is tragedy, injustice, grief, oppression, war, suffering, and hopelessness in the world. If God is good, why do these things happen?

The reality is that our human minds are not equipped to understand all of life’s mysteries, and that’s not really a bad thing. Isaiah 55:8-9 (NIV) says, “‘For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.’” God Himself tells us that His thoughts and His ways are too big for us to grasp. Shouldn’t this be a comforting thought?

When life doesn’t make sense to us, there is Someone who does understand it, who sees the big picture and knows how it all fits together. This Someone is never baffled or confused or overwhelmed by anything. That someone is Almighty God, and He is not only omniscient, but He is always good. That means that His thoughts and His ways are always good, too, even when we can't comprehend them.

It’s not always easy to be comforted by this knowledge, though. We are human, after all, and we were created with curiosity and a thirst for understanding. I think this is where faith fits in. If we were like God and understood everything, we would have no need for Him. If we had no curiosity or longing for knowledge, we would never seek Him. Faith grows when we are able to admit that our understanding is limited and trust that His is not.

My pastor, Dr. Kris Clifford, preached a sermon this week that resonated with this devotional I was already writing. He said, “Truth often comes wrapped in mystery. When we embrace mystery, we don’t grow in knowledge—we grow in faith. Paradox isn’t a problem to solve—it’s an invitation to trust.”

Some mysteries weren’t meant for us to solve. As hard as it is for us to accept, we won’t always be able to know answers to all the “who, where, what, how and why” questions of life. We do know, though, that God is God, and God is good. Those are the only facts we really need.

Let’s Pray: Heavenly Father, sometimes we don’t understand why things happen, and that’s hard for us to accept. We know that Your ways are higher than our ways, though, and Your thoughts are higher than our thoughts. We know that You are good. Please help us to trust You more each day. In Jesus’s name we pray, Amen.

Song of Reflection: “Glorious Unfolding” by Steven Curtis Chapman. Listen to it here.

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Author Bio:

Suzanne Felton has been a writer for most of her life, even before she realized it. 

She has worked in a wide range of settings, from non-profits to science labs to government contracts to educational classrooms, all of which involved writing in one form or another.

Suzanne is amazed by the power of words and now uses her passion and experience to help authors and students as a writing coach. Encouraging others to find the words and the courage to share their stories is one of her greatest joys.

Suzanne’s devotionals have been published in periodicals and blogs including The Upper Room, The Love Offering, Keys 4 Kids, and The Swallow’s Nest. She is also a two-time finalist in the Cascade Christian Writing Contest for poetry.

She is a wife, mother, writer, reader, teacher, deep thinker, and sinner saved by grace. Suzanne and her family reside in Northern Virginia, but Suzanne will always call her native South Carolina home.

Married to her best friend for twenty-five years, Suzanne is active in her church, where she and her husband have served as deacons for over a decade. They enjoy watching sports and visiting national parks with their two teenage sons. Suzanne is also an avid birder, easily and happily distracted by anything with feathers.

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Connect with Suzanne:
Website: https://suzannefelton.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/l_suzanne_felton
Email address: suzannefeltonwriter@gmail.com

Devotionals for the Heart: Life lessons learned from watching a butterfly

When the Struggle is Worth It
A devotional by by Suzanne Felton

“Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”—Hebrews 12:1-2 (NIV)

The life cycle of a butterfly is sometimes used as a metaphor for the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ, as well as the spiritual transformation of all who put their faith in Him.

The metamorphosis of a crawling caterpillar into a beautiful, soaring butterfly is a powerful picture of Christ’s victory over death and the tomb. It is also an amazing, awe-inspiring thing to observe in nature. I learned a lot the first time I had that chance to be immersed in an outdoor observation one summer when I spotted a monarch caterpillar in our backyard. I watched it munching leaves for several days until there was a small, green, pod—a chrysalis—hanging in the place where the caterpillar had been. It was happening! I knew this was the stage in which the caterpillar was changing into a butterfly. I could not wait to see it emerge! About two weeks later, I noticed a change in the chrysalis. I was so excited that I got a lawn chair and settled in to watch the big event. I was ready to see the new butterfly triumphantly burst out of its tomb and take to the skies.

Much to my dismay, that’s not what happened. There was no bursting forth and there was nothing triumphant about it. Instead, for what seemed like forever (really about half an hour), whatever was inside the chrysalis struggled pitifully to get out through a small crack. It was hard to watch. I was afraid this butterfly had not fully developed and was not going to make it. I felt bad for it and I was tempted to run inside, get some scissors, and help the poor thing out myself, but I decided to let nature take its course.

When the creature was finally out of the chrysalis, it looked nothing like the glorious monarch butterflies I’ve seen in pictures. This was a wrinkled, weak-looking version, like someone had crumpled it up to throw it away. I could not take it anymore. I was sure something had gone wrong, and this butterfly would never fly. I packed up my chair and went inside.

About an hour later, curiosity got the better of me, and I went back to check on the butterfly one last time. What I saw took my breath away. Where the weak, shriveled insect had been before was a gorgeous, vibrant butterfly, wings spread wide and shining in the sun. I had barely processed the vision when the wings fluttered and the butterfly rose into the air, glided across the yard and out of sight.

For Christians, Easter Sunday is a joyful day of victory and celebration. We know that Jesus Christ died on the cross, overcame death, and rose on the third day. We know that He still lives, and that everyone who puts their faith in Him will also overcome death and have eternal life in Heaven. Hallelujah!

However, we might forget this fact of life: Sometimes His path to joy and victory was not glorious or easy to watch. Even before the unthinkable, excruciating physical pain of crucifixion, Jesus was betrayed by one of His closest friends, denied by another, rejected by the masses, convicted unjustly, mocked, and beaten by His captors. To outside observers, it must have looked as though this Jesus, the Teacher who had gained so many followers, was crumpled up, weak, and not going to make it. When His body was sealed in the tomb, it must have seemed like the end. But only a short time later, Jesus was alive again in a radiant, restored body!

It turns out, as I later learned, that a butterfly’s struggle to emerge from its chrysalis is a necessary part of its life cycle. The physical strain as it wrestles its way out is essential for strengthening its muscles and developing its wings. In short, without the struggle, it would never be able to fly.

Christ’s earthly path to the cross was not easy, and He was not eager to suffer. The Bible says that Jesus prayed fervently in the Garden of Gethsemane (Matthew 26:36-40) that His Father (God) would take away the burden of what He had to do, but when God did not, He obeyed because He knew that what He would accomplish through his suffering would be far greater than even the weight of the sin of the world. As the Bible tells us, “For the joy set before him he endured the cross” (Hebrews 12:2 NIV). God could have made things easier for His Son, but the struggle was a necessary part of the plan.

Putting our faith in Jesus does not guarantee us immunity from struggles or pain. In fact, the Bible tells us that the opposite is true. Before he was crucified, Jesus told His disciples what was going to happen to Him, and how they would face trouble because they were His followers. Then He said, “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world” (John 16:33 NIV). We will all face difficult times in this life, but, as followers of Jesus Christ, we can remember that our faith is in the One who has overcome it all. The Apostle Paul knew this when he wrote, “I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us” (Romans 8:18 NIV). Like Jesus, we can face the struggles of this world because of our hope in the joy that is to come.

This is Holy Week. As we look forward to the joy and celebration of Christ’s resurrection at Easter, let us not forget that His path to victory was not easy or appealing. Christ’s struggle was a necessary part of God’s plan of salvation. If you are struggling right now, you can put your hope in the One who has overcome death and darkness and wants to give you joy and peace.

Let’s Pray: Dear Heavenly Father, this week we pause to remember the tremendous sacrifice of your Son, Jesus Christ, who died on the cross to save us from sin. Help us to remember that no matter what we are struggling with now, we can have hope because the joy of eternal life with You awaits us. Thank You, Lord, for loving us so much. In Jesus’s name we pray. Amen.

Song of Reflection: “Thank You Jesus for the Blood (Live)” by Charity Gayle. Listen to it here.

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Author Bio:

Suzanne Felton has been a writer for most of her life, even before she realized it. 

She has worked in a wide range of settings, from non-profits to science labs to government contracts to educational classrooms, all of which involved writing in one form or another.

Suzanne is amazed by the power of words and now uses her passion and experience to help authors and students as a writing coach. Encouraging others to find the words and the courage to share their stories is one of her greatest joys.

Suzanne’s devotionals have been published in periodicals and blogs including The Upper Room, The Love Offering, Keys 4 Kids, and The Swallow’s Nest. She is also a two-time finalist in the Cascade Christian Writing Contest for poetry.

She is a wife, mother, writer, reader, teacher, deep thinker, and sinner saved by grace. Suzanne and her family reside in Northern Virginia, but Suzanne will always call her native South Carolina home.

Married to her best friend for twenty-five years, Suzanne is active in her church, where she and her husband have served as deacons for over a decade. They enjoy watching sports and visiting national parks with their two teenage sons. Suzanne is also an avid birder, easily and happily distracted by anything with feathers.

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Connect with Suzanne:
Website: https://suzannefelton.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/l_suzanne_felton
Email address: suzannefeltonwriter@gmail.com

Devotionals for the Heart: Making lists and making room for Jesus Christ

What Should Go at the Top of My Daily To-Do List
A devotional by Suzanne Felton

And he said to all, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.”—Luke 9:23 (ESV)

I love making lists.

My desk and my purse are cluttered with all kinds of to-do lists: household chores to be completed, groceries to be bought, bills to be paid, birthday cards to be mailed, and the like. I always have a pencil and legal pad on hand, and I even have apps on my phone for list-making.

The reason I love lists is the sense of satisfaction that comes from crossing off completed tasks. Every checked box feels like a gold star for a job well done. When the last task is complete, I can throw the list away and bask in the glow of my productivity.

The problem with to-do lists, however, is that there is no real end to them. Sure, I can make a list and check all the boxes, but there are always more tasks waiting. Every time I put away the clean dishes, new dirty ones appear in the sink. The houseplants need to be watered on a regular basis, and the grass keeps growing after it’s been mowed. Kids outgrow clothes and shoes and need new ones every time I turn around, it seems. Bills keep coming every month. Oh, how I wish I could wash, fold, and put away the laundry one time and be done with it forever, but we all know that is not the way it works.

I think sometimes we tend to think of salvation as an item on a to-do list. Once we have professed faith in Jesus Christ, we feel as though we have checked that box and are good to go, once and for all. There is truth in that, but it is not the end of the story. Yes, “everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved” as the Bible says in Romans 10:13 (ESV), and once Jesus saves us, the Bible says, “no one is able to snatch them out of the Father's hand” (John 10:29 ESV). Living out our faith, though, is ongoing work, a choice and an effort we must make daily. Just as we must bathe and dress and eat and drink not just once, but every day, we must decide afresh each day to follow Jesus and put our faith into action.

This idea of daily renewal is woven into scripture from beginning to end, from the Old Testament when God taught the Israelites to depend on Him daily by sending them manna each morning (Exodus 16) to the New Testament when Jesus taught us to pray by asking God to give us our daily bread (Matthew 6:11 and Luke 11:3). Creation itself models this theme in its many cycles like the changing seasons, tides, day and night. Nature is constantly being renewed, too.

In Luke 9:23 (ESV), Jesus said to his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.” Jesus clearly tells us that following Him is not a one-and-done task, but an ongoing process. Professing faith in Him is not the final question on a test to be turned in and done with; it is the beginning of a lifelong journey with Him. It’s as if Jesus is saying that whatever else is on your daily to-do list, making a new decision to continue that journey should always be item number one.

How can I keep moving forward daily in my walk with Christ? Setting aside time for prayer and Bible reading and looking for practical ways to share His love with the people around me are good items to put on my list. Those priorities can stay the same every day, but the results will be new and greater with practice.

Salvation comes through putting our faith in Jesus Christ, but then we must intentionally put our faith into action on a daily basis. Stopping after the point of salvation would be like buying a new dishwasher but never actually using it to wash the dishes. Walking with Jesus is not a chore, but it does take effort and intentionality for faith to grow and produce fruit.

Will you walk with Jesus today? And follow Him every day of your life?

Let’s Pray:

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for your gift of salvation through your Son, Jesus Christ. Help us to make taking new steps with You the highest priority in our lives every day. We love You, Lord. Thanks for being with us every step of the way!

In Jesus’s Name I pray, Amen.

Song of Reflection: “I Will Follow Christ” by Clay Crosse, Bebe Winans & Bob Carlisle. Listen to it here.

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Author Bio:

Suzanne Felton has been a writer for most of her life, even before she realized it. 

She has worked in a wide range of settings, from non-profits to science labs to government contracts to educational classrooms, all of which involved writing in one form or another.

Suzanne is amazed by the power of words and now uses her passion and experience to help authors and students as a writing coach. Encouraging others to find the words and the courage to share their stories is one of her greatest joys.

Suzanne’s devotionals have been published in periodicals and blogs including The Upper Room, The Love Offering, Keys 4 Kids, and The Swallow’s Nest. She is also a two-time finalist in the Cascade Christian Writing Contest for poetry.

She is a wife, mother, writer, reader, teacher, deep thinker, and sinner saved by grace. Suzanne and her family reside in Northern Virginia, but Suzanne will always call her native South Carolina home.

Married to her best friend for twenty-five years, Suzanne is active in her church, where she and her husband have served as deacons for over a decade. They enjoy watching sports and visiting national parks with their two teenage sons. Suzanne is also an avid birder, easily and happily distracted by anything with feathers.

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Connect with Suzanne:
Website: https://suzannefelton.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/l_suzanne_felton
Email address: suzannefeltonwriter@gmail.com

Devotionals for the Heart: How to approach God for the help we need

We Can Approach God with Confidence
A devotional by Suzanne Felton

“Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.”—Hebrews 4:16 (KJV)

When I was a student in college, I don’t think I ever took advantage of the office hours my professors offered. 

Maybe it wasn’t as common then as it seems to be now for professors to schedule blocks of time to offer their students extra help with course material, advice concerning their majors and future careers, or further discussion about a topic introduced in class.

I know at least some of my teachers offered this courtesy, but I was too intimidated to approach those learned and prestigious men and women face-to-face. I attended classes, listened to lectures, and took notes, but I relied on the textbook and my own capabilities for doing homework and studying for tests.

Thinking back now, I wonder how much more I might have learned if I’d gone to my teachers during their office hours to ask my own specific questions and receive their personal help, or even just to soak up the wisdom of experts in their fields. What incredible opportunities I missed because of my fear, timidity, and pride.

Some people seem to think of God as something like an erudite professor speaking to a large, dark room full of faceless students from a high podium on a distant stage. They attend church services to hear the sermons, and some of them refer to the textbook (The Holy Bible) from time to time. But, like me, they never consider approaching the Teacher (God) personally, even when they don’t fully understand what they’ve heard. God isn’t like that, though. Yes, He is the Maker of the entire universe and Creator of humankind, and His presence reaches to the farthest limits. But He is also a personal God who invites us to come to Him, ask Him questions, and get to know Him. Yes, His greatness is intimidating, but His love is just as great, and He offers it freely all the time.

This reminds me of the Bible story about Nicodemus. He was a high-ranking member of the Pharisees, a prominent sect of Judaism during Jesus Christ’s time on Earth. Nicodemus visited Jesus at night to ask him questions about his teaching. He had heard Jesus speak in the temple, but he wanted to understand more. Let’s read about his encounter with Jesus in John 3:2 (NIV). Nicodemus approached Jesus and said, “Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher who has come from God. For no one could perform the signs you are doing if God were not with him.” Nicodemus and Jesus went on to have a deep philosophical discussion in which Jesus shared profound truths about himself, His Heavenly Father (God), and the kingdom of Heaven. The record of their discussion includes one of the best known and most treasured verses in scripture: “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16 NIV). What an amazing tutoring session!

Since Nicodemus waited until nightfall to go to Jesus, it’s likely that he was nervous and timid about approaching him at first. It didn’t take long for Nicodemus to become fully engaged in a meaningful discussion with his teacher, though. He couldn’t fully grasp the truths Jesus imparted to him then, but he seems to have taken Jesus’s words to heart and pondered them after that night. We’re not told what happened immediately after that encounter, but in John 19 we learn that Nicodemus was one of two men who came to prepare Jesus’s crucified body for burial, bringing his own costly spices. Finding the courage to approach Jesus and ask him questions that night had an eternal impact on Nicodemus’s life.

Let’s read what Jesus said about His Father and how He wants to help us. According to Luke 11:9 (NIV): “So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.”

We are invited to come and sit at the feet of the one true living God! The God who set the stars in place and who knows how many hairs are on your head welcomes you and wants you to not only know Him, but to learn from Him and grow in wisdom and faith. He requires no appointment or admission fee for us to enter His Presence. All we need to do is seek Him out, knock on His door, and ask whatever questions are on our hearts. What an incredible invitation! Let’s learn more about God’s invitation to us in Hebrews 4:16 (KJV). It reads, “Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.”

As great and mighty and omniscient and unfathomable as God is, He is also approachable and welcoming. His office hours are always open for us. Therefore, let us come boldly unto the throne of grace!

Let’s Pray: Heavenly Father, You are great and mighty, and loving and approachable. Help us take advantage of your amazing invitation to seek You, knock on your door, and ask whatever is on our hearts with confidence so that we can grow closer to You. In Jesus’s Name I pray, Amen.

Song of Reflection: “Before the Throne of God Above” by Selah. Listen to it here.

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Author Bio:

Suzanne Felton has been a writer for most of her life, even before she realized it. 

She has worked in a wide range of settings, from non-profits to science labs to government contracts to educational classrooms, all of which involved writing in one form or another.

Suzanne is amazed by the power of words and now uses her passion and experience to help authors and students as a writing coach. Encouraging others to find the words and the courage to share their stories is one of her greatest joys.

Suzanne’s devotionals have been published in periodicals and blogs including The Upper Room, The Love Offering, Keys 4 Kids, and The Swallow’s Nest. She is also a two-time finalist in the Cascade Christian Writing Contest for poetry.

She is a wife, mother, writer, reader, teacher, deep thinker, and sinner saved by grace. Suzanne and her family reside in Northern Virginia, but Suzanne will always call her native South Carolina home.

Married to her best friend for twenty-five years, Suzanne is active in her church, where she and her husband have served as deacons for over a decade. They enjoy watching sports and visiting national parks with their two teenage sons. Suzanne is also an avid birder, easily and happily distracted by anything with feathers.

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Connect with Suzanne:
Website: https://suzannefelton.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/l_suzanne_felton
Email address: suzannefeltonwriter@gmail.com

Devotionals for the Heart: Reflections on The Parable of the Prodigal Son

What the Father Really Wants from Us
A devotional by Suzanne Felton

“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. “Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!” —Matthew 7:7-11 (NIV)

For people who grew up in the Christian church and read the Bible often, one the most familiar parables spoken by Jesus Christ and recorded in The Holy Bible is the one about a father and his two sons. This story, known as “The Parable of the Prodigal Son”, is found in Luke 15:11-32. So simple on its surface, yet so profoundly deep, it speaks to me in new ways every time I read it. As I dwell on it this time, I’m struck by the character of the father, and how often I forget who he really is and what he really wants from his children.

In the story, the younger son demands his inheritance early and heads to a distant country to live his life the way he wants to, away from his father’s watchful eye. When the money runs out and reality sets in, he realizes that even his father’s servants have it better than he does. Broken and ashamed, he returns home prepared to grovel and beg his father to treat him like one of his hired servants (Luke 15:19). Meanwhile, the older son remains at home, dutifully doing his chores and patting himself on the back for being the “good son”.

For all of us, there are times when we behave like the younger son on some level, knowingly choosing to do something that brings us pleasure in the moment instead of what God knows is right and best for us. Whether we spent a long season seeking self-satisfaction or only give in occasionally to our human weakness, we all have sinned and fallen short of God’s high standard (Romans 3:23). When remorse comes, we like the younger son, feel shame and unworthiness, believing that our Heavenly Father will only punish us if He will listen to us at all.

How does the father in the parable respond to his sinful son? Does he show the anger and judgement that his son expects and, let’s face it, deserves? Does he display a look of disappointment and deliver a lecture on how he hopes the son has learned his lesson? No. Not even close. Luke 15:20 (NIV) tells us, “But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.”

There was no anger, no lecture, no punishment; in fact, the son had barely finished apologizing when the father called to his servants and said, “Let’s have a feast and celebrate” (Luke 15:23). It wasn’t just a small party, either. The father wanted the most expensive food prepared and the finest clothes brought out for his younger son. I must confess: This is not how I often think of God.

It’s easy to forget that the story didn’t end there. Maybe we’d like a nice, happy ending with father and son reunited in celebration, but there’s still the older brother to address. His reaction to his sibling’s return and his father’s lavish outpouring is anything but happy. He flat-out refuses to enter the party, and when his father comes looking for him and pleads for him to join the festivities, he says in Luke 15:29-30 (NIV), “Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!”

Could it be that the older son is sometimes forgotten because his reaction seems justified? After all, what he says is true. He hadn’t done anything wrong, yet his little brother, who shirked his duty and squandered their father’s money on prostitutes, gets all the attention and praise. Didn’t he have a point?

The father in this story doesn’t give the older son the affirmation he’s fishing for. Rather, he simply reminds him that, “you are always with me, and everything I have is yours” (Luke 15:31). The older son believes he should have earned his father’s approval through his own efforts, but his father’s love was freely his all along. If I’m honest with myself, I’m a lot like the older brother at times, too.

Scripture tells us that Jesus told this parable to an audience made up of “tax collectors and sinners” as well as Pharisees and teachers of the law (Luke 15:1-2).

The story was addressed to all of them, and all of us. It reminds us that our Heavenly Father’s abundant love is freely given to us all. What He wants from us is relationship and fellowship, not box-checking. We don’t have to earn His love, and we can’t do anything to lose it.

Let’s Pray: Heavenly Father, thank You for your infinite, unconditional love. Help me to remember that I don’t have to work to earn that love, and that, even when I miss the mark, You are always waiting for me—not with a lecture, but with open arms and a big heart of love. Help me to fully receive the love you freely give. In your Son Jesus Christ’s Name, I pray. Amen.

Song of Reflection #1: “He Wants It All” by ForeverJones. Listen to it here.

Song of Reflection #2: “Prodigal” by Sidewalk Prophets. Listen to it here.

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Author Bio:

Suzanne Felton has been a writer for most of her life, even before she realized it. 

She has worked in a wide range of settings, from non-profits to science labs to government contracts to educational classrooms, all of which involved writing in one form or another.

Suzanne is amazed by the power of words and now uses her passion and experience to help authors and students as a writing coach. Encouraging others to find the words and the courage to share their stories is one of her greatest joys.

Suzanne’s devotionals have been published in periodicals and blogs including The Upper Room, The Love Offering, Keys 4 Kids, and The Swallow’s Nest. She is also a two-time finalist in the Cascade Christian Writing Contest for poetry.

She is a wife, mother, writer, reader, teacher, deep thinker, and sinner saved by grace. Suzanne and her family reside in Northern Virginia, but Suzanne will always call her native South Carolina home.

Married to her best friend for twenty-five years, Suzanne is active in her church, where she and her husband have served as deacons for over a decade. They enjoy watching sports and visiting national parks with their two teenage sons. Suzanne is also an avid birder, easily and happily distracted by anything with feathers.

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Connect with Suzanne:
Website: https://suzannefelton.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/l_suzanne_felton
Email address: suzannefeltonwriter@gmail.com