Showing posts with label PTSD. Show all posts
Showing posts with label PTSD. Show all posts

Monday, May 8, 2023

Devotionals for the Heart: When you cannot see past your pain


What Do We Do With Our Pain?
A devotional by Aubrey Taylor

“I believe that I shall look upon the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living!”
—Psalm 27:13 (ESV)

Perhaps you’ve read the Bible story about Job. He was a godly man who was taken through horrible, seemingly inexplicable suffering. Yet in the end, he not only received much more than he’d had before, he also had a much closer walk with the Lord. He spent the rest of his days confessing that a deeper intimacy with God was worth all that he’d endured.

I think of my own story. From the time I was 12 years old, bouts of chemical imbalance led to severe anxiety attacks, depression, and a form of PTSD. I also experienced my parents’ divorce at age 8 and the sudden, unexpected death of my mother when I was 26 years old.

There is a phrase that does not appear in the Bible, yet the principle bears out: “Life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% what you choose to do about it.”

I can look back and identify how that principle has held true in my own life. I see it in the lives of my children, and as an author, I see it as I develop my characters’ stories. Some allow the crises of their lives to harden their hearts against God until they begin to see everything that happens to them as a sign that God doesn’t love them, or that He is not good, or that He does not exist. In extreme cases, they become completely different people, hurting others and destroying their own lives.

I find myself contrasting these characters with the ones who know that something is wrong, desire to change, but do not yet know how. They continue to hope in God’s promises and at the right time, God begins to make a way for them. They find themselves willing to climb the highest mountain or cross the farthest sea. They are willing to accept the difficult, painful process because they believe in the promise of Psalm 27:13 (ESV).

I have been reflecting on the example left to me by my mother. In spite of all the difficulties of her life, she left a beautiful legacy of choosing to be the latter of the two contrasted individuals. I know that when she looked at herself, she saw someone whose faith was spotty and shaky at best. A woman who had had three husbands and lost six children through abortion and miscarriages. But God saw something different. I can say with the utmost confidence that what I remember about her looks far more like what He saw than what she did. I saw then, and I still see now, someone who never gave up believing in the goodness of God.

My mother’s life purpose was always God’s will, even when things went wrong, and even when she knew she’d failed. At those times, she’d fall down at the feet of her Savior (Jesus Christ), open her arms wide to Him, confess her sin and acknowledge His Lordship over her life.

I want to be like that, and if possible, I want to do even better than she did. I want to live a life of believing Jeremiah 29:11 (ESV), in which God promises us, “I know the plans that I have for you…plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.” I know that sometimes, His plans for good are not always going to look good from my perspective. Perhaps that is why my mother loved B.M. Franklin’s poem "The Weaver" so much. The second stanza reads:

Oft times He weaveth sorrow

And I in foolish pride,

Forget He sees the upper,

And I the underside. 

Sometimes, past fears trigger us and we find it difficult to trust that what God is doing is truly for the best. We remember past times when He did not do what we wanted, and it is easy to take that to mean He is not good. May we humbly seek to align our will with His, and ask that He open our eyes to see how everything He does is for our good.

Let’s Pray:
Dear Jesus, I thank You that as a master weaver, you see the finished product of my life’s tapestry long before the loom is even prepared. May I be willing to accept sorrow and difficulty, and trust that I will see Your goodness in it. In Jesus’s Name I pray. Amen.

Song of Reflection: “The Master's Hand” by Annie Herring. Listen to it here.

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Author Bio:

The only child of a single parent, Aubrey Taylor filled her younger years by creating characters and writing stories. This ended around age sixteen when music, friends and part-time jobs began to fill her time. After that came college, work, marriage, and children.


It wasn’t until the world was beginning to come out of the COVID pandemic that God led her back to her love for writing, coupled with a passion she’d always had for history. It was time to start a new adventure! Her current long-term project is Gott Mit Uns, a German-perspective 20th century historical fiction series.

Aubrey lives in Upstate New York with her husband and three children. She’s busy keeping the home, caring for her family, doing research for and writing her books.

Aubrey enjoys music and is involved with the worship ministry at her church as well as a German choral group. She also plays gigs occasionally with friends as a singer and acoustic guitarist. After all that, she finds time to sketch, craft, and hike.

She is a lover of Jesus Christ, The Holy Bible, history, German culture, tea, and cats.

Aubrey has a special heart for those who struggle with severe anxiety, depression and PTSD.

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Connect with Aubrey:

Website: https://www.aubreytaylorbooks.com
Blog: https://www.aubreytaylorbooks.com/blog
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aubreytaylorbooks/
Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/aubtaybooks
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aubreytaylorbooks/

Friday, December 8, 2017

Cozy Christmas Reads: Cathe's story


Story Excerpt: Hope for the Holidays by Cathe Swanson 

Chapter 1

At the Unity Plenkiss Community Center

“It was nice to meet you, Dearie. I hope you like it here.”
The elderly woman patted Carrie’s hand, slid the candy into her purse, and headed toward the door.
Carrie started. “Hey!”
The old lady quickened her pace.
“That’s mine!” Indignant, Carrie hoisted her bag onto her shoulder before giving chase. No point in getting anything else stolen. “Wait!”
Even with the head start, Carrie would have caught up with her if it hadn’t been for the man holding the door open.
“Hello, Mary.”
His friendly greeting was cut off as she ducked under his arm and bolted down the sidewalk. He turned to stare after her.
“Stop that woman!” Carrie tried to push the man out of the way. “She took something that belongs to me.”
The man let the door close but stayed in front of it, blocking her pursuit.
“Excuse me!”
“What did she take?”
Carrie raised her chin and repeated, “She took something that belonged to me.”
He waited.
“She took my peanut butter cups.”
His brows shot up behind his glasses and a dimple creased his cheek. “Your peanut butter cups.”
“She knew they were mine.” Great. She sounded like a petulant child. She tried to slide past him, but he stepped back against the door.
“Please don’t chase her down. It’s just candy.”
“It’s not about the candy,” lied Carrie. It was all about the candy. She’d been anticipating the treat since boarding the airplane in Kinshasa nearly 24 hours ago and paid an extortionate price for it at the O’Hare airport, stuffing it into her bag so Roy wouldn’t tease her. She’d planned to eat it in her new office, as some sort of symbolic ritual, but she’d only made it as far as the unattended reception desk before stopping to chat with the old woman.
“I’ll buy you a new one.”
She narrowed her eyes at him. Was he patronizing her? She hated being patronized. Roy had already patted her on the head today, asking if she had achieved a full five feet yet, but Roy was her brother. This guy was a stranger.
“Why should you? It wasn’t your fault, unless she’s your mother or something.”
“Well,” he said, “I…”
The man was blushing. Her interest piqued, Carrie waited for him to continue.
“I’m the pastor of her church.”
She hadn’t expected that. “You’re her pastor? Have you ever mentioned to her that stealing is a sin? Because it’s one of the big ones, you know. Number eight on the top ten list.”
He scowled. “Yes, she knows that. We try to keep an eye on her. She doesn’t steal from stores or anything like that.”
“No bank robbery?” Carrie asked. If being the youngest of eight children had taught her anything useful, it was the old cliché: the best defense is a good offense. She wasn’t going to put up with ribbing about the candy. “What does she say when you confront her?”
“The last time someone tried to talk to her about it, she was so embarrassed that she stayed home from church and the community center for three days. When someone went out to check on her, they found she’d fallen and cracked a rib.”
“Ouch.” Carrie sighed. “Don’t worry about the candy. I’ll pick up another one tomorrow.”
“No, really, I’ll get you one.” He stuck out his hand. “I’m Micah Neresen. Interim pastor at the Blessed Church of The Holy Lamb and Sacred Lion.”
“The Blessed Church of the… really?”
“Most people call it the Lamb ‘n Lion,” he said. “You’re welcome to join us. Worship at nine and Sunday school at 10:45.” He pointed. “Two blocks down. You can see it from here when there aren’t any leaves on the trees.”
“The Blessed Church of the Sacred Lamb…”
“No,” he interrupted. “Holy Lamb and Sacred Lion.”
“Ah. Got it. I’m Carrie Strough.”
“Oh!” The man appeared surprised. “I didn’t… I know your brother, and I knew you were coming. I didn’t realize…”
“That I’m white? Is that a problem?”
“No, not at all. Nice to meet you.” He looked around. “Isn’t anyone here to meet you?”
“Roy picked me up at the airport. We stopped at his apartment to drop off my luggage, and then he had to do something here, so I came along. I thought I could poke around before I officially get started.”
“Spying out the land?”
“Just looking around.”
Roy emerged from the hallway. Carrie had forgotten that about him—for such a big man, he could be remarkably quiet.
“Micah!” He shook hands with the pastor. “I haven’t seen you in a while. How’ve you been?”
“Good! I came by to pick up some Thanksgiving dinner fliers, and I met your sister.”
Carrie slipped away before Roy could ruffle her hair and say something annoying. She roamed the lobby as they chatted, impatiently waiting for Roy to free himself so he could give her a tour. Mostly, though, she wanted to see her new office. Would it be big? With a window? Roy said it had been a teacher’s office before they converted the old school into the women’s shelter and community center. It had a desk and two chairs, he said, and a file cabinet and computer. She could put up pictures and get some plants to make it homey.
No, she thought, not homey. Home was a low, rambly building half a world away, behind concrete block walls that didn’t completely shut out the noise of the city. She had a new home now, with Roy, in an apartment on a quiet street near the community center, shaded with leaves that were just starting to turn colors. She had expected commuter trains, crowded city traffic thick with exhaust fumes, slums and modern skyscrapers; she hadn’t realized that a Chicago neighborhood might feel like a small town, with respectable houses and tidy lawns. It was still foreign to her.
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Author bio: 

Cathe Swanson lives in Wisconsin with her husband of 32 years. They enjoy spending time with their family and being outdoors, kayaking, hiking, birdwatching and fishing, but summer is short in Wisconsin, so it’s important to have indoor hobbies, too. 

Cathe has been a quilter and teacher of quiltmaking for over 25 years, and she enjoys just about any kind of creative work, especially those involving fiber or paper.

Her family is growing steadily; she and her husband had three sons, and those boys all grew up and married delightful women and started producing grandchildren: four boys and three girls so far! The long Wisconsin winters are perfect for writing and reading books! 


Cathe enjoys writing stories with eccentric characters of all ages. Her books will make you laugh and make you cry – and then make you laugh again.

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Connect with Cathe:
Newsletter signup - http://www.catheswanson.com/newsletter
Website - http://catheswanson.com
Twitter - https://twitter.com/CatheSwanson 
Facebook - http://www.facebook.com/CatheSwanson
Pinterest - http://www.pinterest.com/catheswanson 
Instagram - http://instagram.com/CatheSwanson 
Goodreads - http://www.goodreads.com/CatheSwanson 
BookBub Author Page - http://www.bookbub.com/authors/cathe-swanson 
Amazon Author Page - http://www.amazon.com/author/catheswanson

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Hope for the Holidays book blurb: Newly arrived from her home in the Congo and armed with a brand-new degree in nonprofit management, Carrie Strough is eager to organize and improve the Unity Plenkiss Community Center. 



Unfortunately, no one wants to be organized, and only Micah Neresen, the charming and handsome pastor of the local church, is interested in her plans. Or is he just interested in Carrie?

With a cast of lively and eccentric characters including a homeless vet with PTSD, a con man, an elderly couple with an over-the-top Christmas display, a feisty committeewoman with a past of her own, and a police investigation, Micah and Carrie wonder if there is any hope for the holidays this year!

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Hope for the Holidays book review: "Readers of Cathe’s first Christmas novella Snow Angels will enjoy revisiting their old friends in Maly Park, but Hope for the Holidays is a stand-alone book sure to please lovers of light mystery and suspense. Cathe’s willingness to tackle life’s deeper questions head-on sets her apart from other authors in this genre. Why does God allow some people to live in desperate circumstances while others live in abundance? Where is God in suffering, tragedy, and PTSD? Cathe’s skillful storytelling in answering these questions brings the reader to a place of hope and trust in the goodness of God." ~Reviewed by Anne E. Phillips

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Info for buying the book: Hope for the Holidays is exclusively available in Making Spirits Bright, a collection of Christmas novellas from Cathe Swanson, Chautona Havig, April Hayman and Toni Shiloh. 


"The Christmas Lights Collection returns with four new, never-before-released novellas in Making Spirits Bright! From romance to cozy mystery, this collection features contemporary novellas sure to get you in the Christmas spirit."

Book purchase link - http://amzn.to/2jVndU9

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Thursday, December 8, 2016

A Prelude to Christmas: Cathe's story about Snow Angels


Welcome Cathe Swanson to the blog today! She's a sweet person and a talented author. Today she's here to talk with you about her holiday book, Snow Angels via an author interview. 

Here's the book blurb for Snow Angels: When Lisa Marsh is roped into serving Thanksgiving dinner at the local community center, she encounters hundreds of children, lively teenagers, stubbornly independent veterans, eccentric elderly people, and a particularly rude and scruffy homeless man named Pete. The evening ends in disaster, but when her best friend challenges her to reach out and help other people, Lisa decides to take on the project of reforming Pete – whether he likes it or not. 

Her plan is simple: Help him find a job and become respectable. All he needs is a helping hand and some guidance. And a shave. Definitely, a shave.

Pete is willing to work, especially if it means spending time with the pretty volunteer, but her tactless determination to “reform” him makes him dig in his heels. Her creative ideas for employment become increasingly outrageous, but every time he tries to put an end to her meddling, she charms him with her good intentions and willingness to serve others.

Lisa finds herself unaccountably attracted to her vagabond protégé and irresistibly entangled in the lives of the other people she meets at the community center. Before she knows how to stop it, her one small service project snowballs into an extraordinary Christmas ministry that just may change her life forever.

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Enjoy the interview with Cathe!
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Interview with Cathe Swanson, author of Snow Angels:

Your heroine Lisa seems very strong-headed but sweet. Tell us how you created her character.

A good friend of mine survived many years of a difficult marriage, and a counselor told her she had a civilian form of PTSD. That diagnosis fascinated me. As a military wife and mother, I am aware of the realities of PTSD, but I hadn’t associated it with trauma experienced by civilians.

At the beginning of Snow Angels, Lisa Marsh suffers from crippling anxiety. When she was younger, she was energetic, fun and perhaps a little Type-A. She was full of ideas and was willing to work hard to make things happen. She carried others along in her enthusiasm. The circumstances of the death of her husband left her shattered, however, and the book is about her healing as she learns to accept God’s gracious forgiveness.

Who convinced Lisa Marsh to serve Thanksgiving dinner at the local community center? How does that inciting incident further the story?

Lisa’s sister-in-law, Claire, is the one who set up that situation. It wasn’t a matter of convincing her, though; Lisa was pressed into service as an emergency replacement for another volunteer, and she just couldn’t get out of it.  She thought she could push her way through it and never return, but in reality (well, in my fictional reality), it was the start of her healing.

Tell us about the homeless man name Pete. What does he look like? Smell like? Act like? What draws him to Lisa?

Pete is a genuine guy. What you see is what you get – except for the facial hair. He just can’t grow a decent beard.  As for smell... He works with street people, especially men, who smoke and drink. At one point early in the book, he gets doused with a bottle of booze, and that smell is hard to get out of a heavy winter coat.

He is tall and gangly, and not particularly handsome. He has shaggy dark blond hair and blue eyes, a rectangular head, mobile lips and a fair complexion. He has a marked limp. When he talks, he describes things with his hands. Not waving them around, but illustrating his conversation. Pete is attractive because of his intensity. When he is with a person, they have his full attention. He treats each person with a respect that protects their dignity.

Pete doesn’t like Lisa at all for the first part of the book, but he reluctantly acknowledges her good intentions. Her patronizing attitude offends him. He knows he needs to tell her the truth, but every time he tries, she annoys him all over again and he doesn’t do it. As she heals from the wounds of her traumatic past, however, he gets glimpses of the girl she used to be and starts to enjoy her company.

Describe Lisa and Pete’s meet-cute.

Lisa and Pete’s first meeting at the Unity Plenkiss Community Center sets the tone for their early relationship. She doesn’t want to be there and is barely staving off an anxiety attack, and he’s in a hurry, blaming himself for wasting food and needing to get back to the delivery of meals to shut-ins. He’s rude. She’s judgmental.  There is no instant attraction. Lisa and Pete are very human characters.

What or who compels Lisa on her mission to find a “decent job” for Pete and to make him look “respectable”? How does her special project transform into a Christmas ministry?

Lisa’s sister-in-law, Claire, pressures her into agreeing to do some kind of service project as a memorial to Lisa’s dead husband. “Fixing Pete” seems like a good short-term project with a reasonable chance of success.  Like many short-term projects, though, it snowballs. He is the one who first involves other people, and she has to change her small plan to include them. Other needs are brought to her attention, and other helpers come forward. The burgeoning ministry helps Lisa regain her confidence as she is reminded that she does have the skills to manage such projects.

What is it about Pete that Lisa finds attractive and leads her to getting to know him better?

Lisa likes the way Pete interacts with others (except for Mary Henders). She is impressed by his consideration for other people’s self-respect. She sees that he works hard and genuinely cares about others, so when she learns his true identity, she also acknowledges her own part in the deception.

What was the reason that you wrote this story? Was there any inspiration from a real-life situation? Explain.

The “misunderstanding” part of the story was inspired by No Shave November. As the mother of three sons, I am fairly familiar with this event. When they were younger, they weren’t very good at growing facial hair, so they just ended up looking scruffy!

The inspiration for the setting was the Milwaukee Rescue Mission and similar ministries. They treat people with respect, helping them preserve their dignity in difficult circumstances.

It’s easy to start seeing “the poor” or “Vietnam vets” or “the homeless” or “the elderly” as demographic groups instead of individual people like ourselves. I am pro-life, and that means valuing each individual life, as God does, regardless of socio-economic status.

Lisa’s condition was inspired, as I said, by the idea of PTSD in the civilian population. I researched it and learned that it’s quite common, with symptoms similar to those experienced by military veterans. For Lisa, that realization was a step toward healing.

What was your favorite scene to write in Snow Angels? Why?

The scene in which they put up the Christmas decorations for Mr. and Mrs. Wilde, of course! It was fun coming up with ideas for tacky lawn ornaments.

What was the most difficult scene to create in this story? Why?

Without doubt, it was the scene with Tally. Women have been serving in the military for a long time, but – I am ashamed to admit – I hadn’t really thought about them having the same problems we see in male veterans. The number of female homeless veterans is appalling. And just as in the male population, many suffer some degree of PTSD. I wanted to show Tally as an individual, though, and not just a statistic, so I gave her an ordinary, healthy childhood and then a horrible wartime experience.  She is a good foil for Lisa.

What lesson are you trying to teach your readers through this book?

I hope that readers will come away with a greater awareness of people as individuals, but I also hope people will remember that God does eventually redeem the years the locusts have eaten. Today is a blip on the timeline of eternity. I don’t want to minimize pain and suffering. Our hearts should be broken for our hurting neighbors, but for those who trust in Christ, it’s not the end of their story.

Is there anything about your story or characters that taught you, as the author, a lesson? If yes, please share the lesson.

People who live in poverty or other hardship need to be treated with courtesy and respect, to help them maintain their dignity. Dignity isn’t the same as pride. Pride is a sin, and humility is a virtue, but being humiliated is devastating.  This is especially true for elderly people, as they become increasingly dependent on other people.  

Thanks for the interview!

Thank you, Alexis!

Do you have any closing thoughts to share?

I hope you enjoy Snow Angels. I know it swings from hilarity to heartbreak and back again without much notice, but life is like that. If you know someone who is struggling with the issues I wrote about, check out the list of resources in the back of the book.

My first full-length book in the Great Lakes collection is available for preorder now and will be released on Valentine’s Day! Baggage Claim is set about two years before Snow Angels. In it, you will meet a younger Phoebe and some characters who will reappear in the next Unity Plenkiss book.

Snow Angels is my very first published book, and I’ve been amazed and blessed by the response from readers. Please feel free to send me a note about the book or issues in it. Meet me on Facebook and other social media, and please sign up to receive my email newsletter. God bless you!

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Author Bio:
Cathe Swanson lives in Wisconsin with her husband of 32 years. They enjoy spending time with their family and being outdoors, kayaking, hiking, birdwatching and fishing, but summer is short in Wisconsin, so it’s important to have indoor hobbies, too. Cathe has been a quilter and teacher of quiltmaking for over 25 years, and she enjoys just about any kind of creative work, especially those involving fiber or paper. 

Her family is growing steadily; she and her husband had three sons, and those boys all grew up and married delightful women and started producing grandchildren: three boys and two girls so far, and two more arriving in the spring!

The long Wisconsin winters are perfect for writing and reading books! Cathe enjoys writing stories with eccentric characters of all ages. Her books will make you laugh and make you cry – and then make you laugh again.


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Buy Cathe’s book: Snow Angels is available in paperback on Amazon, and as part of the Christmas Lights novella collection for Kindle.
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Connect with Cathe:
Amazon Author Page - www.amazon.com/author/catheswanson

Thursday, May 14, 2015

Love is in the Air: Once-in-A-Lifetime Kind of Love, a book review


I love, Love, LOVED this book by Inspirational Contemporary Romance Author Becky Wade!

A Love Like Ours--the story of Lyndie and Jake--is one of those books that takes you by the hand and leads you through a whirlwind tale of innocence, heartbreak, trauma, drama, restoration then lets you down gently with a very happy ending! 

So it is with great honor that I feature Becky Wade's latest novel, which Bethany House Publishers sent to me for free in exchange for an honest review.

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Once-in-A-Lifetime Kind of Love
Review written by Alexis A. Goring for Becky Wade’s book , A Love Like Ours

A Love Like Ours is one of Becky Wade’s finest, most intense, well-written books!

She explores the layers of her characters, perfectly painting a clear and correct picture of their hearts on paper.

The author takes Lyndie James—a beautiful free-spirit with an optimistic personality and a heart of compassion—and matches her with Jake Porter, perhaps the most handsome of all the three Porter brothers but also the most troubled.

Described as “Tall, dark and brooding,” Jake is wrestling with his PTSD caused by a traumatic accident during his days as a Marine. Despite not being able to control the circumstances that led to the accident and the death of his comrades, Jake who was in charge of his crew, blames himself and relives the trauma of that explosive moment very often to the point where he cannot sleep.

Deep within his heart is a safe place. It’s the place where he remembers his childhood friend, Lyndie. But since Lyndie left when her family moved away from Texas to California, that safe place is also a broken place and he blames Lyndie for breaking his heart.

So when Lyndie and her family return to Holley (Texas), Jake is more angry than happy to see her. But he’s not exactly angry out of well, anger; he’s angry out of fear because he realizes the place in his heart for Lyndie after all these years is still soft and he feels the need to protect her at all costs.

Jake’s innate need to protect Lyndie is challenged from the start of this story when Lyndie tells him she wants to exercise his horses and be a jockey for one of his struggling stallions named Silver Leaf. While Lyndie and her family lived in California, she received the experience and expertise that prepared her to be a great jockey and her compassionate heart that has a way with horses makes her the perfect person to help Silver Leaf reach his full potential as a race horse.

As the story progresses, the reader learns that Lyndie wants to help Jake too. The hurt in his eyes and his dark brooding nature does not deter Lyndie from her goal. A woman of faith, Lyndie believes all things are possible with God who is in the miracle-making business. But will Jake’s stubbornness and years of suffering from PTSD keep a permanent wall of steel surrounding his heart? Or will Lyndie’s love for horses and Jake break through?

You’ll have to read to find out the answers to those questions but I can tell you that you may fall in love with this story! It made me laugh, cry and smile.

The author is a pro at developing deep characterization, describing the settings and mastering the art of “showing” the story not “telling” the readers the action.

The reader will grow endeared to the childhood version of the characters as told in the Prologue and the reader will be captivated by the grown up version, dialogue and scenarios from Jake and Lyndie’s adult lives starting at the moment they are reunited in Chapter 1.

It’s such a beautiful story! The author takes you by then hand from page one and leads you through Jake and Lyndie’s journey from the beautiful beginning, through the challenging times and moments of despair, to the very sweet end.

What makes this book extra special to me is the Bible verse the author leaves on the last page of the book contains a beautiful promise from God in real life—Jeremiah 29:11 (New International Version) which reads, “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Another reason why I love this story—that’s my “life verse” and the reason why is a whole other story which I will not go into for the sake of closing this book review.

If you’re not convinced to buy Becky’s book yet, you may when you see the lovely book cover which in itself is endearing. The book summary also speaks volumes.

A Love Like Ours is worth every bit of a five-star rating. I can see this book being of one of my favorite stories forever.

Wednesday, April 29, 2015

Love is in the Air: Author interview with Catherine West

Welcome my special guest Catherine West!

She's new to my God is Love blog but not new to the world of Christian fiction! Catherine, according to her author bio which you can read in full later, is "an award-winning author who writes stories of hope and healing from her island home in Bermuda". 

I loved Catherine's first novel, Yesterday’s Tomorrow which was released in 2011 and won the INSPY for Romance, a Silver Medal in the Reader’s Favorite Awards, and was a finalist in the Grace Awards. After reading Yesterday's Tomorrow, I decided that I want to read all of Catherine's books because her storytelling style is so captivating. She knows how to sweep her readers off their feet and place them into her fictional story world. When you read a book by Catherine, not only will you become invested in the characters, you will become a loyal fan of her work, or at least that's what happened to me!

But don't take my word for it, find out for yourself as you read today's blog post, an author interview with Catherine West! But first a promo for her latest novel, Bridge of Faith...

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Blurb for Catherine West’s new book Bridge of Faith:

Two lives taken down different roads - one enduring love - one shot at starting over.

If only they believed in second chances.

Julia Connelly is finally free from twelve long years in an abusive relationship. Now able to live the life she’s longed for, Julia takes her two children back home to Vermont, hoping for peace and healing. The last person she expects to see is the man she eloped with at eighteen—who then abandoned her two months into their marriage, with little explanation.

When an assignment in the Middle East ends in tragedy, popular news correspondent, Reid Wallace, returns to his hometown seeking answers and peace of mind.

Confronting his past was not in the plan.

Now he’s asking different questions. Like why the only woman he’s ever really loved still mesmerizes him. Why the haunted expression she wears reaches right into his soul.

And why her twelve year-old son looks just like him.

They say you can’t go home again. Sometimes you don’t have a choice.

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Author interview with Catherine West (answers from Catherine are marked "CW", questions from Alexis are in bold):

What makes you, “you” as a writer?

CW: Mmm. Honesty. Truth. Real issues, real life. Those are the things I’m passionate about in my writing. I strive to write believable stories that are true to life, and people can relate, on some level, to the things my characters experience.

Your work has won many awards! Name a few and share what they mean to you.

CW: Yesterday’s Tomorrow was awarded the INSPY for Romance, in 2011, so that was pretty cool. I love it when readers really connect with a book and, they did with this one, and the judges’ comments were particularly inspiring and encouraging to me.

Your professional biography says that you write “inspirational stories of hope and healing.” Why is that your niche and what main message are you hoping to share with the world?

CW: I’m a sucker for hope and second chances, I guess. Really, where would we be without them? I think that no matter how far you’ve fallen, even if you’ve turned your back on your faith and all you ever believed in, and the people you love, there’s still hope. Still a chance for redemption if you choose to take it. That’s the message I believe in, that there is nothing that can separate us from the love of God, and I hope to show this through the stories I write. There is always a way back home, if you want to find it.

You live on the island of Bermuda! How’s the weather today? What do you love the most—and dislike the most—about island life?

CW: We’re a little cloudy today, but the sun is up there. A lovely breeze is drifting through my window and the ocean is nice and calm. I love the beauty I’m surrounded by. There are always flowers, no matter the season, everything is always green, and the way of life here just seems slower somehow. What do I dislike the most? That I am so far away from all my writer friends in the United States. Seriously. I’d love it if we were all close enough to get together for coffee and brainstorming at least once a month! But thank God for the Internet, because Skype comes in handy for that, a lot!

How did your degree in English prepare you to write books?


CW: I think it really ensured that I was widely read. I tried to choose classes that would give me a good grounding in all kinds of literature. I read British Classics, American Classics, Poetry, Greek Mythology, Children’s Literature, Shakespeare … you name it. I absolutely loved every minute. And I attended the University of Toronto, and most of my classes took place in very old, beautiful buildings and it totally set the mood for me.

*Segue*: I loved your first novel, Yesterday’s Tomorrow! It was the first book I read by you and it was SO good that now I want to read ALL of your books, including your latest release Bridge of Faith! Let’s spend some time talking about it.

What is the significance of the title Bridge of Faith?


CW: Oh, thanks! LOL! Well … you’ll understand that when you read the book! I don’t want to give the story away, but there is a covered bridge in the story that holds significance to both Reid and Julia, and toward the end of the book, an event takes place there that really tests their faith. The bridge itself is called Faith Bridge.

What elements of Bridge of Faith make it an inspirational contemporary romance?

CW: Both characters struggle with who they are and what they believe in. The story is really as much their faith journey as it is their journey back to finding themselves and figuring out where they belong.

What or who was the inspiration for your main characters Julia and Reid?


CW: I can’t say there were any real inspirations for the characters. I liked the idea of Reid being an overseas correspondent and a high profile kind of guy, because that would be so different from the world Julia comes from. They both sort of developed over time as the story unfolded, which is pretty much what happens with every book I write. I never start out with any fixed ideas. Everything’s up for grabs.

Were Julia and Reid romantically involved? Share their backstory.

CW: I don’t want to give anything away, so I’ll just say, yes, yes they were.

In what ways are you hoping Julia and Reid’s story will resonate with your readers?

CW: I think their story really brings out the message that it’s never too late to start over, never too late for redemption, grace and forgiveness. And anything is possible if you really want it badly enough.

Would you say your book gives your readers hope for second chances? Why or why not?

CW: Bridge of Faith is all about second chances. Absolutely. It’s really vital for Reid and Julia to be able to grasp that the only way to move forward is to forgive, and offer that to one another, and to know that second chances are definitely possible.

You tackle serious real-life issues such as abuse and PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) in your book. Tell me why and what you hope to accomplish with that feature.

CW: Well, I didn’t set out to really make those issues the forefront of the story. But they are real and they do happen. Those kinds of challenges can scar and change a person forever. The test is to see what a character does with that kind of history, and how they move beyond the trauma and pain of their past. Again, it’s about grasping the concept of hope and trusting God to prepare new paths.

Reid is a popular news correspondent which I find to be an interesting career! What can you tell us about Reid’s profession and personal life? Describe his passion and share a few of his character flaws.

CW: He’s a small-town guy who’s made it big. He didn’t set out to be famous, but he suits it well. He’s probably a bit arrogant at the start of the story, definitely stubborn. His career has taken him all over the world, and he’ll do anything for a story, but that’s what ends up breaking him. His career is the most important thing to him but that changes over time. He comes across as very self-assured, but he’s actually not, and because of the PTSD, he’s really struggling to find himself again.

What is Julia’s career? What does she love and dislike? Share insight into her fictional life.

CW: Julia hasn’t done much with her life, and this is one of the things that she’s bitter about. She’d hoped to go to college, to become a journalist as well, but her dreams never came true. She’s a stay-at-home Mom, very protective of her two children, who she’ll do anything for, she loves her family, and she works with her best friend in a florist shop. Because of her traumatic background, she’s not very trusting, she’s still afraid a lot of the time, and she knows how to hold a grudge. She hates being lied to and told what to do, and she still feels abandoned by the man she once loved with all her heart.

What about Julia mesmerizes Reid?

CW: Hmm, can I say you’ll have to read the book to find out?! I think he’s just really struck by her courage. That despite everything she’s been through, she’s survived, pulled her children out and kept going, making sure they have a future. And he’s partly drawn to her because of their history, but he has to start seeing her for who she is now, not for who she was.

Explain the line on the summary of your book that reads, “They say you can’t go home again. Sometimes you don’t have a choice.”

CW: Both Reid and Julia are suffering and are forced to leave the places they were in so that they can find out what the future holds for them. Returning home was the only logical choice for them both.

Simply said, why did you write Bridge of Faith?

CW: My stories generally form over time. I didn’t set out with a particular message or even a solid storyline, but as I got to know my characters and developed their journeys, it became a story that I knew would have to be told, because everyone needs to know that second chances are always possible.

*Closing*: Let’s close this interview with a little insight into your life as an author...

What do you do when you’re not working on your next story?


CW: Well, you’ll probably find me outside playing with my dog, or walking him! I also love to read of course, and we watch a lot of movies. I travel a good deal, so that’s fun. Oh, and I suppose I should admit I spend a LOT of time on Facebook! LOL!

Why do you love roses and orchids?

CW: Roses I think come from my Mom. She was an avid gardener and loved roses, all varieties. I love the colors, the smell. They are so delicate and each bush provides a different experience. Orchids are different in that not all have a scent. But they are a unique plant and sometimes a challenge to grow and keep, so I think I enjoy them because of that aspect.

How did you meet and marry your dream man who is your husband? Did you “just know” he was “the one”? Share details.

CW: Ha. Well, funny story. We actually met on a Young Life trip in the United States, when I was just 15. Which sounds totally crazy to me now. We were climbing a mountain with the group, and I’m probably the biggest klutz in the world, which he kind of figured out, and quickly offered his assistance. We got to know each other after that, were friends for a while and then started dating … and 29 years later … here we are. How did I know he was the one? Let’s just say I had a few issues back then, and he loved me through them. Anyone that could put up with me the way he did, had to be the one.

Would you ever use your real-life love story as the backdrop for one of your fictional stories?

CW: Not particularly, but I think parts of our story are probably in every one of my books in some way.

Rachelle Gardner—well known as a “dream agent” for many Christian writers—is your agent! How did that happen? 

CW: Actually, I do love this story! I always say first and foremost, it was a total God thing. I’d just started getting serious about searching for an agent, gotten a few rejections and I was trying to figure out whether I really want to stick with the writing gig. It was around the time I started working on Yesterday’s Tomorrow. Rachelle was blogging and that’s how I got to know her. I found out she was a freelance editor, we talked story a bit and I eventually asked her advice on this book, because I didn’t know how it would fly in CBA. So she was really the first person to encourage me to write the book. I mentioned I’d finished it at some point, and she asked if she could read it. Soon after that she announced that she was becoming a literary agent, and not too long after, she offered representation. I think I was one of her first clients. And honestly, she is the best! All these years and she’s never given up, always encouraged and pushed me to keep going, even when all the doors seemed shut. 
And I'm delighted to say we've finally been able to celebrate some exciting publishing news, which I'll share in the near future!

What advice do you have for aspiring authors?


CW: Do the research, study the craft, believe in yourself and never ever give up! There’s so much more, but that’s really the most important part. If this is what you believe God’s gifted you with, if it’s really your dream, it’ll happen. Anything is possible!

Complete this sentence: What gives me the most joy as a writer is _________ because ______________________.

What gives me the most joy as a writer is doing what I love because God has given me the ability to write, and the opportunity to share those stories with others.

Thanks for the interview, Catherine!
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Author bio:
Catherine West is an award-winning author who writes stories of hope and healing from her island home in Bermuda. Her first novel, Yesterday’s Tomorrow, released in 2011 and won the INSPY for Romance, a Silver Medal in the Reader’s Favorite Awards, and was a finalist in the Grace Awards. Catherine’s second novel, Hidden in the Heart, released in September 2012, was long listed in the 2012 INSPY’s and was a finalist in the 2013 Grace Awards. Catherine’s latest novel, Bridge of Faith, is now available on Amazon.

When she’s not at the computer working on her next story, you can find her taking her Border Collie for long walks or tending to her roses and orchids. She and her husband have two grown children. Catherine is a member of American Christian Fiction Writers and Romance Writers of America, and is represented by Rachelle Gardner of Books & Such Literary. Catherine loves to connect with her readers and can be reached at Catherine@catherinejwest.com

INSPY Award-winning author Catherine West writes stories of hope and healing from her island home in Bermuda. When she’s not at the computer working on her next story, you can find her taking her Border Collie for long walks or tending to her roses and orchids. She and her husband have two grown children. Catherine’s latest novel, Bridge of Faith, is now available on Amazon.

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