
Unfailing Love
A devotional by Essie Faye
“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”—1 Corinthians 13:7 (NLT)
True love is the greatest experience ever. I’m not talking about that fairytale love or the fictional love that exists in many Hallmark movies during the holidays.
I’m talking about the love that endures everything yet still stands. I’m talking about that love that chooses to stay, even amid your ugliest and even worst times. I’m talking about that love that sacrifices so that you can be well, safe, content, and protected. I’m talking about the love that walks with you through sickness and pain. Love that empathizes with those who’ve experienced loss and struggle. This is true love. It is a lesson that I continue to learn each day. I’m still learning to love God, myself, and others more deeply, more honestly, and more vulnerably. I’m a student of love. It is a patient teacher. I don’t know it all and the more intimately I grow to know true love, the more I am transformed.
God is love (1 John 4:16). All of God’s attributes are also the attributes of love. Love is eternal, transformative, holy, and pure. Love is good, kind, faithful, and trustworthy. Love is safe and wholesome. Love is everything good. Love is a space of health and healing.
In 1 Corinthians 13, the Apostle Paul begins a discourse about the transformative attributes of love. He describes love as sacrificial, gentle, powerful, kind, and considerate. He declares that in life, love is the principal thing to acquire and demonstrate to the world. He goes on to emphasize that love is the greatest—that is to say that love is most transformative and necessary to the existence of humanity.
Love is a superpower, not a weakness. Many people, including myself, consider love to be a weakness. When we love others truly, we are vulnerable and we seem to be under the power of another. Love causes us to act in ways that seem at first glance to be weaknesses. Love causes you to give to others, when it would be easier to be selfish. Love causes us to share our lives and remove protective walls around us, in the face of fear and insecurities. Love causes a mother to give everything–blood, bones, even her body–to bear a child. It would seem rather fragile to be impacted by love in such a way. On the contrary, the submission demonstrated in love is powerful, transformative, and empowering.
Love never gives up. Society would tell us that at some point—sooner, rather than later—we should give up. We should give up on ourselves after we’ve made so many mistakes. We should give up on God when He doesn’t do what we want Him to do. We should give up on people when they have a rough go of life. We should give up on relationships when they become inconvenient or challenging. We should just walk away. But God, like true love, never gives up. True love continues to show up when times are hard and when it’s inconvenient. True love forges ahead in the face of obstacles, challenges, and difficulty. That’s what love does.
God pursues us relentlessly. At every turn He seeks to win our hearts, though He is the God of the universe and doesn’t need us (but He loves us). As God, He has no rival and He has no equal. He is omniscient, omnipotent, and preeminent. He is eternal and everything belongs to Him. He is God with and without us. Yet, He loves us and pursues relationship with us. He never gives up on humankind.
Love never loses faith. Faith is complete trust or confidence in someone or something. Faith is demonstrated by works, according to the Apostle James. If you want to see love, watch a person’s actions. Actions speak louder than words. Love believes and behaves accordingly. If love is present, it will act. Love will give. Love will care for others. Love will protect. Love will support and show up. Love will celebrate and cherish.
Love is always hopeful. Hope is a feeling of expectation in a certain outcome. Love looks forward to the future. Love carries hope with it even as it celebrates the past. Love works together with faith and hope to create an environment of safety and peace. In hopelessness, love is absent because love brings peace, rest, faith, and hope. God loved the world and sent His Son Jesus into the world to bring hope. He brought hope of salvation and eternal life (John 3:16).
Love endures every circumstance. Love is undefeated. True love never loses. It is resilient and eternally victorious. Love is a gentle giant with massive influence. Love enters the room with gentleness and kindness yet impacts the atmosphere like a massive earthquake. Love shifts atmospheres and changes hearts. Love endures difficult circumstances to emerge victorious. Love patiently endures discomfort so that another person grows, heals, and learns. God is love and He has no end. Like God, true love is eternal.
As we close this devotional, I encourage you to learn to love God with reckless abandon, love yourself like God loves you, love others intentionally and love your enemies as God tells us to in Matthew 5:44-45.
Let’s Pray:
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for loving us passionately, intentionally, and profoundly. You are True Love and You’re our example on how to love. Help us to love like You do. Help us to practice unfailing love in our relationships with ourselves, You, and others. Help us to harness the transformative power of love and to use it for the furthering of the Gospel and the edification of Your kingdom. Let Your kingdom come. Let Your will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven. Let love reign in our hearts and lives. Show us how to love in word and deed. Thank You for hearing and answering us. In the name of Jesus Christ we pray. Amen.
Song of Reflection #1: “Your Love Never Fails” by Chris Quilala /Jesus Culture/ Jesus Culture Music. Listen to it here.
Song of Reflection #2: “One Thing Remains” by Cory Asbury | Bethel Church. Listen to it here.
Song of Reflection #1: “Your Love Never Fails” by Chris Quilala /Jesus Culture/ Jesus Culture Music. Listen to it here.
Song of Reflection #2: “One Thing Remains” by Cory Asbury | Bethel Church. Listen to it here.
Song of Reflection #3: “The Maker” by Chris August. Listen to it here.
Song of Reflection #4: “No Greater Love” by Rachael Lampa. Listen to it here.
Song of Reflection #5: “God Loves You” by Jaci Velasquez. Listen to it here.
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Author Bio:
Essie Faye is a woman of faith.
She’s a bilingual author, educator, speaker, psalmist, and interpreter.
Essie is the author of the “Finding the Love You Deserve” series for women and teens. She is deeply committed to motivating minorities, women, and youth to heal themselves, love and accept themselves, and pursue God while chasing their dreams and carving out their life’s path.
Essie is a Chicago native.
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Read Essie’s YouVersion Devotion Plan here:
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