Showing posts with label complacency. Show all posts
Showing posts with label complacency. Show all posts

Monday, April 19, 2021

Devotionals for the Heart: A life lesson on learning to be content


The Journey of Contentment
A devotional by Angela Anderson

“...for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.” 
–Philippians 4:11 (NIV)

In today’s society, some may find it difficult to be content. With smart phones that grant immediate access to social media, television with countless commercials, and magazines overflowing with ads … there is always that looming pressure to keep up with the Joneses.

Someone is always more attractive or something is always more new and more improved. Even the things that we do not need or even care about somehow become a desire. The wishlist grows longer and longer over time with useless items that usually cost more than we would like to spend. It’s almost as though we are trying to fill a void, reach a level of status, or make ourselves feel better about life. I suppose that is why I entitled this devotional “The Journey of Contentment.” To be content is to be happy, at peace, or satisfied with the status quo. This type of behavior is learned and it takes practice to master contentment.

In the first book of Timothy 6:6-10, the Apostle Paul imparts words of wisdom regarding contentment. To paraphrase, he proclaims that serving God and doing what is right will make a person rich because it will result in contentment. He further counsels that we should be thankful and content with whatever we have. It is always good practice to recognize the blessing in what we have instead of getting caught up with satisfying foolish desires.

It is important to note that there is nothing wrong with desiring things or wanting to be better. The detriment is only when this is our primary concern. However, contentment is forward- focused. It looks into the future with hope for a brighter day. Contentment is fluid and should not be confused with complacency which is stagnant. Contentment comes with the understanding that the status quo is just a phase and you are passing through it. Complacency on the other hand is a lax attitude of just staying where you are without any effort or desire to move forward. I do not believe that God wants us to be complacent in our lives. We should be constantly striving toward excellence and becoming the best version of ourselves. God created us to be great. Contentment is finding that spiritual maturity and learning more about God as you navigate through different experiences in your life.

The Apostle Paul explains this the best in Philippians 4:11-13. He further explains that he has learned to be content in any circumstance that life brings his way. Moreover, he has experienced living on both ends of the spectrum: extreme need and having more than enough. He claims that he learned the secret of being happy wherever he is, whether he has little or much. He then boasts that “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” That is the key to contentment. No matter the circumstance, Jesus Christ will give you the strength to make it. Always remember that God will provide all of your needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19).

Let’s Pray: Dear God, Thank you for being a God of provision. May we grow in Your love and develop a better understanding of what it means to be content. Remind us that we can do all things only because You give us the strength to do it. In Jesus’s Name I pray. Amen.

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Author Bio:

Angela Anderson was born in Brooklyn, New York. She was raised in a Christian home in New Jersey. Angela dedicated her life to Christ and was baptized at the age of 12. 


As a child in elementary school, she developed a penchant for writing book reports and entering writing contests. By high school, she was taking advanced placement courses in English and Speech & Creative Writing. Angela’s love for journaling also had its beginnings in high school and it evolved into prayers journals and detailed notes for prospective book ideas. As a result, Angela is the author of a published 40-day devotional book titled Just When I Thought I Knew God. She also wrote a children’s book that is not yet published.

Although Angela wanted to somehow incorporate writing in her life, she is currently a Certified Human Resources Professional. Angela graduated from Rutgers University in NJ with a double bachelor’s degree in Labor/Employment Relations & Sociology. She also has an MBA from Strayer University.

Angela founded a non-profit 501(C)(3) organization called Head to the Sky, Inc. It was formed in order to assist those in prison with their transition into society and to reduce the rate of recidivism in the community. During this venture, Angela received a certification in grant writing from The Edyth Bush Institute for Philanthropy & Nonprofit Leadership at Rollins College. Angela was very passionate about teaching, training, and sharing the love of Christ in this ministry; but she had to refocus her passion when she and her husband decided to start their family.

Angela has been married to the love of her life, Duane Anderson for 16 years. Together they have two sons: Thomas (age 8) and Ryan (age 3). Angela’s favorite pastime is journaling and she also enjoys spending quality time with her family. Her personal mission is to empower others to achieve their goals and dreams.

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Connect with Angela:
Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/angela.thomasanderson
Facebook fan page for her devotional book, Just When I Thought I Knew God:
https://www.facebook.com/jwitikg/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelanderson1104/

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

31 Days of Prayer: Complacency



"Painting Pictures of Egypt" is a song by former school teacher turned musician Sara Groves.

Listening to this song today, I thought about my own life. I'm at a place where I'm looking back at the past experience and thinking, "Well it wasn't perfect but at least it was predictable in the payment for my work." And though that particular job was not my passion or skill set and it was a tough time for me, sometimes I find myself as Sara would say in her song, "painting pictures of Egypt" glossing over the tough times I went through with pretty paint trying to make everything seem as if it was all smooth sailing and that the problems were not that bad.

Before I move on, let me explain what the context of the song, "Painting Pictures of Egypt" is referring to. There was a time in human history when the Israelites were enslaved by the Egyptians in the land of Egypt for 400 years. The slaves worked really hard and were treated terribly but they were fed and had a place to live. But nonetheless they were oppressed. Long story short, God used a man named Moses to free His people from slavery and lead them to the Promised Land which flowed with milk and honey where they would no longer be slaves but free. Only problem was after the people left the the place where they'd been enslaved and were traveling through the the wilderness as they journeyed to the promised land, they started to complain. 
Now the background information is that this was not a journey of a few hours. It took days and while God provided for their basic needs including food from heaven called manna, the Israelites grew sick of it. They complained that they were tired of manna and thought they would die of thirst in the desert so they started "painting pictures of Egypt", wishing they were slaves again because at least then they had all the variety of food they wanted to eat and they had everything they wanted. They painted such a pretty picture that they totally forgot that the horrible way they were treated by the Egyptian slave masters. They failed to remember how difficult the work they were made to do each day was and they forgot that when they were slaves they did not have freedom.

Now that you know the context of the story and Sara's song, what do you think? Have you ever found yourself "painting pictures of Egypt"? And by that I mean, you were in a bad situation that you prayed about to God to deliver you from but once God delivered you from that situation and started to lead you to your promised land (a better life), you started to look backward to life as you knew it because on your journey forward to a better life, it was taking longer than you thought? So you find yourself looking back and longing for the complacency you felt when you were in a situation that no matter how horrible it was, it was predictable?

Well if you are "painting pictures of Egypt", I would like to advise you - and me - to take it to the Lord in prayer. God didn't lead you out of a tough situation to have you return to it. God didn't say He has something  better for you (your "promised land") if He wasn't going to help you in your journey to receive it. And no, your journey into the plans and future God has for you (Jeremiah 29:11) may not be short as in a few hours or days or weeks. It may take months or in my case, years! But just like the lyrics in the song by Sara Groves say -- and I paraphrase-- if your destiny comes too quick, you may not appreciate it and you may not even recognize it! So dear friend, I encourage you to continue taking your situation of any sorts (work, home, family life, relationships, etc.) to God and then continue praying to Him about it every day and allowing God to guide you on your journey each day, trusting that He will help you arrive safely to your destination and it will be better than you dreamed.

So again, I encourage you if you are still painting pictures of Egypt, put down your paintbrush and move forward in faith toward all the wonderful plans God has destined for your life story.

God bless you!